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Maternal Health Advocacy: If We Can Do it, You Can Do It!

Maternal Health Advocacy If We Can Do it You Can Do It!
Maternal Health Advocacy If We Can Do it You Can Do It!

Updated October 28, 2022: Maternal Health Advocacy: If We Can Do it, You Can Do It! details ways that any of us can stand up for sensible postpartum care. Below is the latest on national legislation, as well as groups you can support if you wish!

What’s Going on with Legislating Paid Leave?

Four weeks of paid family and medical leave is now part of the Build Back Better legislation currently in front of law makers. Maternal health advocacy has been a cause championed by many that is now becoming a reality. In addition to helping postpartum mothers heal and adjust to their new role, paid leave allows all family members to have better mental health, economic outcomes and long term benefits.

Paid leave can also be used for individuals to recover from a serious illness or provide care for another family member. The caregiver’s job will still be there after leave. This is an unfolding situation so we recommend following @paidleaveus on Instagram for the latest.

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Maternal Health Advocacy in the Postpartum Phase

November 2020 – My team and I visited Capitol Hill to lobby about the importance of postpartum care, specifically in support of H.R. 34 – the 21st Century Cures Act, “Bringing Postpartum Depression Out of the Shadows.” This Resolution is all about the need to continue to recognize postpartum issues.  Going hand in hand with this is having qualified professionals helping those struggling in the postpartum phase. 

Like everyone who works in mother/baby care, we’ve known for years here at Let Mommy Sleep that early support and intervention just home from baby’s birth are the key to keeping mothers healthy, parents confident and babies safe.  The data in support of even one 2 hour postpartum visit also shows cost effective benefits across the board. 

These early days home with baby are when everyone is at their most vulnerable. By visiting parents just home from the hospital, Registered Nurses, Lactation Consultants and other trained providers head off issues before they become problems. Troubleshooting breastfeeding challenges before they snowball into an issue that makes a parent quit nursing is one example.  Identifying postpartum depression versus baby blues before these emotions spiral into darkness is another. Lastly, we share evidence based safety and newborn care education to build confidence and support for new parents.  Postpartum visits help parents see that not only are they “good enough” for their baby…they are amazing!

In a political climate that has become extreme, we remain a nonpartisan company that supports all families trying to do their best just as we did in 2014 with President Obama’s Summit for Working Families, as we will do on the Hill and as our night nurses continue to do in homes every night. 

How You, yes YOU! Can Support Postpartum Health

If you would like to support maternal health, learn about active legislation in your state and speak up for families, here are 3 ways to get started:

  1. March for Moms. They work every day educating about maternal death, and how it can be prevented.
  2. Did you know diapers are NOT covered under state or federal child safety-net programs? Donate diapers or funds for diapers via the National Diaper Bank.
  3. Be a hands-on or phone support to new and postpartum families by volunteering with Postpartum Support International.

Thank you to everyone who continues to work for healthy pregnancies, families and their babies.

-Denise Iacona Stern

CEO, Let Mommy Sleep

How to Ease Daylight Saving Sleep Loss

updated March 5, 2025 – Yes, it’s just an hour. But when you’re the parent of a newborn, infant or baby twins, it’s a crucial hour! In 2025, we spring forward on March 9 at 2am, so while we lose an hour, babies who used to wake up at 5am now wake up at 6am (yay?). This post, How to Ease Daylight Saving Sleep Loss contains step by step infant sleep help to help ease the sleep transition.

Spring, the Beginning of Daylight Saving Time

Daylight Saving time comes every Spring. So if you have an early rising baby on Saturday the early wake time will be solved Sunday morning when you “spring forward”! Of course even though the clock shows a later time, you and your baby have still lost an hour of sleep.

If you would like to ease your baby into the time change, you can start tonight by slowly adjusting bedtime 10 – 15 minutes earlier each night. If possible, help them to wake up slightly earlier as well. You can also shift the timing of daily activities such as giving a bottle or meals a few minutes earlier to further support the adjustment.

During this adjustment period, be sure to avoid bright light from phones and screens in the evening, as these can make falling asleep earlier more difficult for babies (and adults too).

Of course these best laid plans might not work. Babies are pretty notorious for *not* reading blogs like this! If your baby wakes up early for a few days after daylight savings, that’s perfectly normal. But if you’re a parent who really wants to keep baby on a schedule, the gradual approach may help.

Don’t forget about Your Own Sleep

For parents of little ones, life revolves around sleep, and nothing wreaks havoc on sleep like Daylight Savings. There’s a BIG difference between waking up at 6am and 5am! While you’re helping your baby to sleep better with gradual adjustments, you can start adjusting your own bedtime and wake time. Switch full nights of sleep with your partner and try to wake up 15 minutes earlier each day until you reach your desired schedule.

Loss of sleep after time adjustments is associated with more car accidents and overall disrupted sleep patterns leading to drowsiness, reduced alertness, and impaired cognitive functioning. If you’re driving, take extra care to be sure you’re alert and be aware of others’ behavior on the road as well.

The postpartum time is especially difficult on new mothers and fathers as sleep deprivation weakens the immune system. Additionally brain fog, aka “mommy brain” can contribute to poor decision making with daily tasks.

Daylight Saving Sleep Tips for Babies – Autumn, the end of Daylight Saving Time

If you’d like to keep baby on schedule, it’s important to note that your baby loves routine and gradual change. Little ones don’t respond well to a “cold turkey” approach. One way we can help babies through Daylight Savings, is by gradually falling back an hour at bedtime. As night nanny Sonia says, don’t worry if you can’t start exactly 10 days before Daylight Savings ends. Any success you have in pushing up baby’s bedtime will only help when it’s time to turn the clocks back.

For a baby that typically goes to bed at 7p.m., you might try this about 10 – 14 days in advance of Daylight Savings:

How to Ease Daylight Saving Sleep Loss: Tips to help your Infant Anytime of Year

  • Saturday/Sunday/Monday: Lay baby in the crib for bedtime at 7:10- 7:20
  • Tuesday/Wednesday/Thursday: Bedtime at 7:20- 7:30
  • Friday/Saturday: Try to push bedtime to 7:40- 7:50
  • Sunday:  8 p.m. bedtime, which will actually be 7:00 on the day of Daylight Savings!
Daylight Saving Sleep Tips for Babies 2024
  1. Keep your baby’s bedtime routine consistent. It’s never too early to start with a routine such as “bath, breast/bottle, books and bed.” gets a relaxing bath, final feed of the night and then quiet time to digest and bond with you. Plenty of time to digest and work out gas, as well as a predictable routine pave the way for comfortable sleep. These are also the stepping stones for babies to eventually sleep through the night. 
  2. Leave baby alone if s/he seems to be napping “too long.” Don’t worry, baby is making up for the lost hour from springing forward. While naps/bedtime may be a little off this week, sleep is what’s need to help baby grow and develop. 
  3. Don’t forget black-out curtains! It can be hard for little ones to wind down when it’s still bright and sunny outside. Room darkening curtains or shades can help baby AND you! Our doulas and night nannies like these for kids rooms.

Why do we have Daylight Saving Time?

Daylight saving time (DST) was originally introduced to make better use of natural daylight and reduce energy consumption. The idea is to shift an hour of daylight from the morning to the evening, so people can take advantage of longer daylight hours after work or school. Here are the facts:

  1. Energy Savings – Historically, DST was believed to reduce electricity use by extending daylight hours in the evening, though modern studies show mixed results.
  2. More Daylight for Activities – Longer evening daylight allows for more outdoor activities and boosts retail and recreational businesses.
  3. Safety Benefits – More daylight in the evening may help reduce car accidents and crime rates.
  4. Agricultural & Workplace Adjustments – While often assumed to help farmers, many actually oppose DST because it disrupts their schedules.

Regarding infant sleep, sleep training and plans are rarely perfect. If following the baby sleep schedule feels forced, it’s okay to just….stop. Newborns in particular are on their own schedule and that is perfectly normal. Daylight Saving time is a parenting reality that can go into the this too shall pass category.

Daylight Saving Sleep Tips for Babies
Newborn and infant twins sleep tips during the time change
Daylight Savings Sleep Tips for Babies

DC Monument Walk for Families

You’ve baked all the bread, gone to all the drive-thru’s and watched Hulu, Netflix and Amazon. You even figured out Apple TV. So for DC, Virginia and Maryland families looking for a COVID-safe activity, we’re sharing a DC Monument Walk for Families. This is a kid-friendly tour of some of Washington DC’s amazing outdoor monuments and memorials. This walk takes about 2 hours and is 2 miles long, but your mileage may vary (literally!), depending on the time you take at each location or if you spend extra time in any of the wide open fields! 

For your GPS, the easiest public parking is at: 455 Rock Creek Trail. There’s lots of spaces and you’ll be right next to the Potomac River, which is a fun start for the kids after being in the car.

DC Monument Walk for Families with newborns infants and toddlers

Here’s the family friendly route we took:

Dr. Martin Luther King Memorial – Most people naturally think of the Stone of Hope statue when they think of this Memorial, but the Dr. Martin Luther King Memorial actually encompasses another 4 acres.

Korean War Veterans Memorial – The 19 stainless steel statues representing the service members who fought in the Korean War are a memorable part of this memorial.

Lincoln Memorial and the Reflecting Pool – No tour of the monuments is complete without an up close view of the iconic tribute to President Lincoln and the Reflecting Pool.

Vietnam Veterans Memorial. The Three Soldiers are right before The Wall, as is the Vietnam Women’s Memorial. Both are smaller but worth seeing for sure.  If you’d like a little side trip, visit the Albert Einstein Memorial at 2101 Constitution Ave. It’s in the opposite direction, but only a 2 minute walk from The Wall. It’s very easy to get back to the original route.

Constitution Gardens – This is one of the lesser known park areas but is very scenic and has a little island on the park area. The island is a Memorial to the 56 Signers of the Declaration of Independence. You can easily see it but it may be closed due to coronavirus safety restrictions. 

World War II Memorial – Gentle reminder to little ones that this is an actual Memorial because it might be tempting to splash in the pools or run around.

Ash Woods, also known as the District of Columbia War Memorial to honor DC residents who served in World War I.

Back to the car for a picnic on the Potomac! Bonus that you’re bound to see lots of low flying helicopters and maybe a few planes taking off. 

What about the Washington Monument…shouldn’t that be in the DC Monument Walk for Families?

You may notice we haven’t included the Washington Monument. Don’t worry, you’ll be able to run to it from the WWII Memorial and you’ll see it very easily for most of the walk. As for restrooms, if the public buildings are closed, there will be port-a-potties along the route. As of this writing, masks and social distancing are required. We hope this helps your lockdown to be a little easier. Any tips we should know?

What Foods Should Be Avoided When Breastfeeding?

updated December 29, 2023 What Foods Should Be Avoided When Breastfeeding? is a common question for night nurses and lactation counselors. As the primary food source for their baby, it’s natural that a parent would worry that the foods they eat could irritate their newborns stomach, or affect milk production. But don’t worry, the short answer is that you can eat almost anything!

mother breastfeeding a newborn outdoors

How Does What I Ingest Affect My Baby?

Conventional wisdom keeps reinforcing the myth that spicy foods, gassy foods and acidic ingredients ingested by a breastfeeding mom make a fussy baby. But this is just not true.  Breastmilk is made from what passes into your bloodstream, not from what goes into your stomach or digestive tract. That’s why ingesting alcohol and then breastfeeding affects your infant, but eating spicy Tandoori does not

For example, broccoli and cruciferous vegetable are known for making people feel a little gassy. But, while broccoli may make your stomach feel gassy, it does not affect your newborn or infant. KellyMom explains: Neither the gas nor the undigested carbohydrates (whose breakdown can cause gas in mom) pass into mom’s blood, so it is impossible for these things to pass into your milk to make your baby gassy.

Breastmilk is made from what passes into your bloodstream, not from what goes into your stomach or digestive tract.

What Foods Should Be Avoided When Breastfeeding?

Jordan Seidel is a Certified Lactation Counselor (CLC) at Stone Springs Hospital, and an owner at Let Mommy Sleep. Here she breaks down foods that can affect breastmilk:

newborn care expert and certified lactation counselor Jordan
Our own Jordan Seidel, CLC

Most breastfeeding mothers can really continue to eat as they normally do, unless baby has symptoms of a sensitivity. Sensitivities are rare but symptoms can include: excessive gas or spitting up, colic, rashes or diarrhea. The key to healthy eating while nursing is moderation, having a well balanced diet, and having an additional 330-400 calories a day. Breastfeeding is a lot of work so your body needs the calories as fuel!

There are a few substances to be aware of when breastfeeding:

  • Caffeine – Caffeine may affect your baby if ingested in larger quantities, meaning about 3 or more 8 ounce cups per day. However, most experts agree that having 1-2 cups of coffee/soda per day will not affect your infant’s mood or ability to sleep. This is especially true if you consumed caffeine during pregnancy. Again, moderation is the key to staying healthy and balanced when consuming caffeinated beverages.
  • Seafood – The CDC and others recommend being particular about eating seafood. While it’s a great source of protein and essential nutrients, most fish does contain mercury which can be passed through the breastmilk. Too much can affect the brain and nervous system of the breastfed baby. 
  • Alcohol– We know that alcohol passes through the bloodstream and into breastmilk. If you’re breastfeeding and would like to drink alcohol, it’s important to know that giving your body enough time to break down alcohol is the best way to lower blood alcohol content.

Are there foods that help me while I’m breastfeeding?

There is no evidence that one specific food will increase a mom’s milk supply across the board. But that doesn’t mean you can’t help milk production. Proven ways to increase milk production are stimulation and feeding at the breast and pumping often. The nature of breastfeeding is supply and demand, so the more demand you put on your body, the more supply your body will make.

More good news is that there are many foods that affect mother’s milk and health in a positive way! Oatmeal for example is high in iron and protein and usually has a calming, cozy association to boot. While we search and search for reasons baby may be fussy, your own diet is not usually the reason. 

Hydration also plays a huge role in breast milk production. Help your body by taking in lots of healthy fluids throughout the day.

What Foods Should Be Avoided When Breastfeeding?
your diet and breastfeeding

Thank you again Jordan Seidel, CLC for contributing to this article. Jordan’s team of postpartum doulas, night nurses and night nannies helps newborns and their parents in Las Vegas and New Jersey.

breastfeeding tip from a night nurse

50 Things To Do With Babies During the First Year

Early parenting inevitably feels like “Groundhog Day”. In addition to breaking up the feed-change-sleep grind, an outing can build parents’ confidence! Around week 8, when babies begin to be more wakeful for longer periods, parents may wonder what to “do” with baby. What do I do with my baby? Or what activities are stimulating to for my little one? The answer is that your baby is interested in everything! Even simple activities, like sitting on the porch listening to birds is an activity. 50 Things to Do with Babies During the First Year, gives ideas of everyday activities that we hope baby -and you- will enjoy.

In the age of social media where every baby seems to be living their best life on camera, it can be tempting to think that every outing and activity should be an event. Remember that your baby is your biggest fan and even simple activities will be met with interest and curiosity!

50 Things To Do With Babies During the First Year

50 Things To Do With Babies During the First Year
50 Things To Do with Babies During the First Year

A Word About Screens

According to KidsHealth.org, “toddlers 18 months to 24 months old can start to enjoy some screen time with a parent or caregiver” and by ages 2 and 3, it’s “OK for kids to watch up to 1 hour a day of high-quality educational programming.” Little ones should be monitored by an adult who can reinforce the lessons shown in this programming. Additionally, the American Academy of Pediatrics says that children ages 2 to 5 should get an hour or less of screen time per day. The exception to these rules is FaceTime and video chats with loved ones. Of course letting children use media by themselves should be avoided.

Please download the PRINTABLE PDF version of this checklist below! For more ideas check out Toys Siblings Can Play with Together. As always please let us know your ideas too!

Top 50 Things To Do with Babies During the First Year