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How to Ease Daylight Saving Sleep Loss

updated October 22, 2024 – Yes, it’s just an hour. But when you’re the parent of a newborn, infant or baby twins, it’s a crucial hour! In 2024, we spring forward on March 10 at 2am, so while we lose an hour, babies who used to wake up at 5am now wake up at 6am (yay?) BUT on November 3rd, we fall back on sleep and lose an hour. This post, How to Ease Daylight Saving Sleep Loss contains step by step infant sleep help to help ease the sleep transition.

Daylight Saving Sleep Tips for Babies – Autumn, the end of Daylight Saving Time

If you’d like to keep baby on schedule, it’s important to note that your baby loves routine and gradual change. Little ones don’t respond well to a “cold turkey” approach. One way we can help babies through Daylight Savings, is by gradually falling back an hour at bedtime. As night nanny Sonia says, don’t worry if you can’t start exactly 10 days before Daylight Savings ends. Any success you have in pushing up baby’s bedtime will only help when it’s time to turn the clocks back.

    For a baby that typically goes to bed at 7p.m., you might try this about 10 – 14 days in advance of Daylight Savings:

    • Saturday/Sunday/Monday: Lay baby in the crib for bedtime at 7:10- 7:20
    • Tuesday/Wednesday/Thursday: Bedtime at 7:20- 7:30
    • Friday/Saturday: Try to push bedtime to 7:40- 7:50
    • Sunday:  8 p.m. bedtime, which will actually be 7:00 on the day of Daylight Savings!
    Daylight Saving Sleep Tips for Babies 2024

    How to Ease Daylight Saving Sleep Loss: Tips to help your Infant Anytime of Year

    1. Keep your baby’s bedtime routine consistent. It’s never too early to start with a routine such as “bath, breast/bottle, books and bed.” gets a relaxing bath, final feed of the night and then quiet time to digest and bond with you. Plenty of time to digest and work out gas, as well as a predictable routine pave the way for comfortable sleep. These are also the stepping stones for babies to eventually sleep through the night. 
    2. Leave baby alone if s/he seems to be napping “too long.” Don’t worry, baby is making up for the lost hour from springing forward. While naps/bedtime may be a little off this week, sleep is what’s need to help baby grow and develop. 
    3. Don’t forget black-out curtains! It can be hard for little ones to wind down when it’s still bright and sunny outside. Room darkening curtains or shades can help baby AND you! Our doulas and night nannies like these for kids rooms.

    Don’t forget about Your Own Sleep

    For parents of little ones, life revolves around sleep, and nothing wreaks havoc on sleep like Daylight Savings. There’s a BIG difference between waking up at 6am and 5am!

    While you’re helping your baby to sleep better with gradual adjustments, you can start adjusting your own bedtime and wake time. Switch full nights of sleep with your partner and try to wake up 15 minutes earlier each day until you reach your desired schedule.

    The postpartum time is especially difficult on new mothers and fathers as sleep deprivation weakens the immune system. Additionally brain fog, aka “mommy brain” can contribute to poor decision making with daily tasks.

    It’s true that there are more car accidents after time adjustments but there are other impacts to adult sleep too. The change in time can disrupt sleep patterns leading to drowsiness, reduced alertness, and impaired cognitive functioning. If you’re driving, take extra care to be sure you’re alert and be aware of others’ behavior on the road as well.

    Spring, the Beginning of Daylight Saving Time

    Daylight Saving time comes every Spring. So if you have an early rising baby on Saturday the early wake time will be solved Sunday morning when you “spring forward”!

    Of course these best laid plans might not work. Babies are pretty notorious for *not* reading blogs like this! If your baby wakes up early for a few days after daylight savings, that’s perfectly normal. But if you’re a parent who really wants to keep baby on a schedule, the gradual approach may help.

    How to Ease Daylight Saving Sleep Loss in 2024 – And Now the Caveats

    Of course as we say above, infant sleep plans are rarely perfect. If following the baby sleep schedule feels forced, it’s okay to just….stop.

    Newborns in particular are on their own schedule and that is perfectly normal. They probably won’t be able to stay up longer or sleep longer, as their body clocks decide when to eat and wake up. On demand feeding of newborns and infants is recommended and actually helps them get into a routine as they grow and can start taking in larger amounts.

    If you are still in the postpartum phase with baby and want to build up milk supply, skin to skin contact and frequent nursing will help. It’s not recommended to hold-off your newborn from sleep or feeding in the early days of nursing. (Or bottle feeding for that matter!) And if none of this works, that’s normal too! Daylight Saving time is a parenting reality that goes in the this too shall pass category.

    Daylight Saving Sleep Tips for Babies
    Newborn and infant twins sleep tips during the time change
    Daylight Savings Sleep Tips for Babies

    DC Monument Walk for Families

    You’ve baked all the bread, gone to all the drive-thru’s and watched Hulu, Netflix and Amazon. You even figured out Apple TV. So for DC, Virginia and Maryland families looking for a COVID-safe activity, we’re sharing a DC Monument Walk for Families. This is a kid-friendly tour of some of Washington DC’s amazing outdoor monuments and memorials. This walk takes about 2 hours and is 2 miles long, but your mileage may vary (literally!), depending on the time you take at each location or if you spend extra time in any of the wide open fields! 

    For your GPS, the easiest public parking is at: 455 Rock Creek Trail. There’s lots of spaces and you’ll be right next to the Potomac River, which is a fun start for the kids after being in the car.

    DC Monument Walk for Families with newborns infants and toddlers

    Here’s the family friendly route we took:

    Dr. Martin Luther King Memorial – Most people naturally think of the Stone of Hope statue when they think of this Memorial, but the Dr. Martin Luther King Memorial actually encompasses another 4 acres.

    Korean War Veterans Memorial – The 19 stainless steel statues representing the service members who fought in the Korean War are a memorable part of this memorial.

    Lincoln Memorial and the Reflecting Pool – No tour of the monuments is complete without an up close view of the iconic tribute to President Lincoln and the Reflecting Pool.

    Vietnam Veterans Memorial. The Three Soldiers are right before The Wall, as is the Vietnam Women’s Memorial. Both are smaller but worth seeing for sure.  If you’d like a little side trip, visit the Albert Einstein Memorial at 2101 Constitution Ave. It’s in the opposite direction, but only a 2 minute walk from The Wall. It’s very easy to get back to the original route.

    Constitution Gardens – This is one of the lesser known park areas but is very scenic and has a little island on the park area. The island is a Memorial to the 56 Signers of the Declaration of Independence. You can easily see it but it may be closed due to coronavirus safety restrictions. 

    World War II Memorial – Gentle reminder to little ones that this is an actual Memorial because it might be tempting to splash in the pools or run around.

    Ash Woods, also known as the District of Columbia War Memorial to honor DC residents who served in World War I.

    Back to the car for a picnic on the Potomac! Bonus that you’re bound to see lots of low flying helicopters and maybe a few planes taking off. 

    What about the Washington Monument…shouldn’t that be in the DC Monument Walk for Families?

    You may notice we haven’t included the Washington Monument. Don’t worry, you’ll be able to run to it from the WWII Memorial and you’ll see it very easily for most of the walk. As for restrooms, if the public buildings are closed, there will be port-a-potties along the route. As of this writing, masks and social distancing are required. We hope this helps your lockdown to be a little easier. Any tips we should know?

    What Foods Should Be Avoided When Breastfeeding?

    updated December 29, 2023 What Foods Should Be Avoided When Breastfeeding? is a common question for night nurses and lactation counselors. As the primary food source for their baby, it’s natural that a parent would worry that the foods they eat could irritate their newborns stomach, or affect milk production. But don’t worry, the short answer is that you can eat almost anything!

    mother breastfeeding a newborn outdoors

    How Does What I Ingest Affect My Baby?

    Conventional wisdom keeps reinforcing the myth that spicy foods, gassy foods and acidic ingredients ingested by a breastfeeding mom make a fussy baby. But this is just not true.  Breastmilk is made from what passes into your bloodstream, not from what goes into your stomach or digestive tract. That’s why ingesting alcohol and then breastfeeding affects your infant, but eating spicy Tandoori does not

    For example, broccoli and cruciferous vegetable are known for making people feel a little gassy. But, while broccoli may make your stomach feel gassy, it does not affect your newborn or infant. KellyMom explains: Neither the gas nor the undigested carbohydrates (whose breakdown can cause gas in mom) pass into mom’s blood, so it is impossible for these things to pass into your milk to make your baby gassy.

    Breastmilk is made from what passes into your bloodstream, not from what goes into your stomach or digestive tract.

    What Foods Should Be Avoided When Breastfeeding?

    Jordan Seidel is a Certified Lactation Counselor (CLC) at Stone Springs Hospital, and an owner at Let Mommy Sleep. Here she breaks down foods that can affect breastmilk:

    newborn care expert and certified lactation counselor Jordan
    Our own Jordan Seidel, CLC

    Most breastfeeding mothers can really continue to eat as they normally do, unless baby has symptoms of a sensitivity. Sensitivities are rare but symptoms can include: excessive gas or spitting up, colic, rashes or diarrhea. The key to healthy eating while nursing is moderation, having a well balanced diet, and having an additional 330-400 calories a day. Breastfeeding is a lot of work so your body needs the calories as fuel!

    There are a few substances to be aware of when breastfeeding:

    • Caffeine – Caffeine may affect your baby if ingested in larger quantities, meaning about 3 or more 8 ounce cups per day. However, most experts agree that having 1-2 cups of coffee/soda per day will not affect your infant’s mood or ability to sleep. This is especially true if you consumed caffeine during pregnancy. Again, moderation is the key to staying healthy and balanced when consuming caffeinated beverages.
    • Seafood – The CDC and others recommend being particular about eating seafood. While it’s a great source of protein and essential nutrients, most fish does contain mercury which can be passed through the breastmilk. Too much can affect the brain and nervous system of the breastfed baby. 
    • Alcohol– We know that alcohol passes through the bloodstream and into breastmilk. If you’re breastfeeding and would like to drink alcohol, it’s important to know that giving your body enough time to break down alcohol is the best way to lower blood alcohol content.

    Are there foods that help me while I’m breastfeeding?

    There is no evidence that one specific food will increase a mom’s milk supply across the board. But that doesn’t mean you can’t help milk production. Proven ways to increase milk production are stimulation and feeding at the breast and pumping often. The nature of breastfeeding is supply and demand, so the more demand you put on your body, the more supply your body will make.

    More good news is that there are many foods that affect mother’s milk and health in a positive way! Oatmeal for example is high in iron and protein and usually has a calming, cozy association to boot. While we search and search for reasons baby may be fussy, your own diet is not usually the reason. 

    Hydration also plays a huge role in breast milk production. Help your body by taking in lots of healthy fluids throughout the day.

    What Foods Should Be Avoided When Breastfeeding?
    your diet and breastfeeding

    Thank you again Jordan Seidel, CLC for contributing to this article. Jordan’s team of postpartum doulas, night nurses and night nannies helps newborns and their parents in Las Vegas and New Jersey.

    breastfeeding tip from a night nurse

    50 Things To Do With Babies During the First Year

    Early parenting inevitably feels like “Groundhog Day”. In addition to breaking up the feed-change-sleep grind, an outing can build parents’ confidence! Around week 8, when babies begin to be more wakeful for longer periods, parents may wonder what to “do” with baby. What do I do with my baby? Or what activities are stimulating to for my little one? The answer is that your baby is interested in everything! Even simple activities, like sitting on the porch listening to birds is an activity. 50 Things to Do with Babies During the First Year, gives ideas of everyday activities that we hope baby -and you- will enjoy.

    In the age of social media where every baby seems to be living their best life on camera, it can be tempting to think that every outing and activity should be an event. Remember that your baby is your biggest fan and even simple activities will be met with interest and curiosity!

    50 Things To Do With Babies During the First Year

    50 Things To Do With Babies During the First Year
    50 Things To Do with Babies During the First Year

    A Word About Screens

    According to KidsHealth.org, “toddlers 18 months to 24 months old can start to enjoy some screen time with a parent or caregiver” and by ages 2 and 3, it’s “OK for kids to watch up to 1 hour a day of high-quality educational programming.” Little ones should be monitored by an adult who can reinforce the lessons shown in this programming. Additionally, the American Academy of Pediatrics says that children ages 2 to 5 should get an hour or less of screen time per day. The exception to these rules is FaceTime and video chats with loved ones. Of course letting children use media by themselves should be avoided.

    Please download the PRINTABLE PDF version of this checklist below! For more ideas check out Toys Siblings Can Play with Together. As always please let us know your ideas too!

    Top 50 Things To Do with Babies During the First Year

    How to Wear and Care for Your Mask

    Masks are effective at preventing the spread of covid19 and other airborne illnesses when worn and stored properly. Know how to wear and care for your mask to stay safe:

    how to wear and care for your mask
    How to Wear and Care for Your Mask

    Instead of simply saying Wear a mask! we’d like to say, Wear a mask…properly!   Here are the most effective ways to wear a mask when out in public:

    Surgical Masksthe light blue or green masks that have an appearance like paper.

    1. When you put it on, start by washing your hands for at least 20 seconds, hand sanitizer can be used as a secondary option if handwashing isn’t possible. When you pick up your mask, touch the sides/portion that goes around yours ears or head.

    While they may not look like it, surgical masks, the ligth blu ones we’re used to seeing,  have a top and bottom.  The top is the straight part with wire and the wire should be pressed it to your nose, so it shapes to the bridge of your nose.

    Masks worn below the nose are essentially useless and offer you and those around you no potential benefit. 

    1. When you take a mask off, start by washing your hands, or sanitize. Remove by touching only the sides/portion that touched your ears or the back of your head. 
    2. Never touch the inside of your mask! Once you do, that mask has been contaminated and is no longer safe to use.  
    3. Surgical masks are meant for single use only. They are not made for multiple uses. If you must reuse it, use your clean hands to fold it so that the outside portion is exposed, and the inside is protected.
    4. If someone coughs or sneezes around you, or you are around someone who is sick, you MUST throw away your mask. This mask is now breeding bacteria between uses. If your mask gets wet, you must throw it away, it is no longer safe to use. 

    When should I wear a mask? 

    Wear a mask anytime you’re in an indoor public space and outdoors if you can’t stay 6ft away from others not in your household.

    When can I *not* wear my mask? 

    • When in your home, provided everyone is covid-negative
    • Outdoors as long as a 6ft. distance is maintained from persons not in your household
    • In your car alone or with those you live with
    • when eating a drinking
    • engaged in strenuous activity where your mask impedes breathing
    • when in labor and giving birth!
    • kids 2 and under should not wear masks

    How do I actually use my mask?

    1. Before you put on a mask, wash your hands for at least 20 seconds. Hand sanitizer can be used if handwashing isn’t possible. When you pick up your mask, touch the sides/portion that goes around yours ears or head…not the middle. 
    2. If you’re wearing a surgical mask, note that they have a top and bottom and the top has a wire which should be pressed to form around the bridge of your nose. The same goes for commercial masks with wire on top, be sure the wire is shaped around your nose. 
    3. Never touch the inside of your mask! Once you do, that mask has been contaminated and is no longer safe to use.  
    4. Remove the mask by touching only the sides/portion that touched your ears or the back of your head. 
    5. Wash and sanitize your hands again.
    6. Remember that your mask must cover your nose. If it’s worn below the nose it’s useless.

    How do I take care of my mask?

    Surgical masks:(the light blue/green ones)

    • meant for single use only. They are not made for multiple uses. If you must reuse it, use your clean hands to fold it so that the outside portion is exposed, and the inside is protected.
    • If someone coughs or sneezes around you, or you are around someone who is sick, you MUST throw away your mask. This mask is now breeding bacteria between uses. 
    • If your mask gets wet, you must throw it away, it is no longer safe to use. 

    Cloth masks:

    • should be washed after EVERY use.
    • Do not put a cloth mask back on if it becomes damp or wet.
    • Do not wear it if you’ve been around a sick person prior to washing it.
    • There are many different cloth masks but comfort and fit should be considered the most important things, since keeping the mask on and properly fitted helps keep you safe. 
    • Remember that the gaiter type of face covering may not be useful.
    • Use a filter in your cloth mask if available. Many commercial masks are sold with filters but you can also use coffee filters or paper towels. These should be thrown away after each use. 

    Cloth Masks 

    Cloth masks should be washed after EVERY use. The above rules all still apply, and if you do not have a wire insert to shape around your nose, just be sure it is at least covering your nose. Do not put a cloth mask back on if it becomes damp or wet, or if you’ve been around a sick person the last time you wore it, prior to washing it.  

    What about Babies and Toddlers?

    Masks are not recommended for babies and toddlers age 2 or younger.

    The ideal situation to keep safe from covid19 in public is mask wearing combined with social distancing of 6 feet or more. 

    how to help your toddler wear a mask

    Lots of Americans are still not convinced that masks work even though evidence shows that masks, especially when coupled with social distancing do in fact slow the spread of coronavirus. (Here’s more evidence and another study).

    As a response to those who say masks don’t work because “if air can get through the mask, so can virus particles,” Public Health RN and Infection Prevention Specialist Laura Hegarty-Moore said, “Of course some particles get through the mask but there’s a certain threshold called viral load that needs to be met in order for someone to get sick. Since a mask blocks a lot of the virus coming out, there’s likely not enough of a viral load escaping to make the person next to you sick.”

    https://www.thelancet.com/journals/laninf/article/PIIS1473-3099(20)30237-1/fulltext

    This blog was written by the Nurses of Let Mommy Sleep and Infection Control Specialist Laura Hegarty-Moore, RN PHS. If you have any questions about masks, let us know on Instagram or Facebook.