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Top 3 Infant Sleep Myths

We hear them at playgroups and baby showers, see them on message boards and read them on medicine bottles.  Parental Urban Legends add more confusion to new parents’ already overloaded brains and with no basis in fact, they persist like Mikey and Pop Rocks.  Here are our Top 3 Infant Sleep Myths and solutions that work better:

Top 3 Infant Sleep Myths from night nannies
Parental Urban Legends

Myth #1. Putting rice cereal in baby’s bottle will help baby sleep longer

There is absolutely no evidence that shows that thickening milk or formula with cereal will make baby sleep longer at night.  In fact, the most cited study on this topic, heartily disproves this parental urban legend.

In our desperation to “tank baby up” and buy an extra hour of rest, it’s often thought that a fuller stomach = more sleep.  This is true when we give baby milk before bed to ensure that s/he doesn’t wake unnecessarily from hunger, but the addition of rice cereal to thicken a feed does not help baby sleep longer.

There is also a very real, evidence based movement to completely remove rice cereal from babies’ diet but that is for another post.

Why it’s become a parental urban legend:  When parents introduce rice cereal in baby’s bottle, it is typically at the 8-12 week mark, when parents are at their wits end with getting up 3-4 times overnight.  The fact is, baby is naturally sleeping longer stretches at this time anyway.  Thickening formula receives the credit for what baby is doing naturally.

What to Do to Help Baby Sleep Longer: Time is the real answer to allowing babies to sleep longer stretches at night as the more baby grows, the more food their tummies can hold, keeping hunger from naturally waking them. But there are a few things that actually help newborns and infants sleep more soundly:

Myth #2. Mylicon will Eliminate Gas and Soothe your Baby

This myth is near and dear to my heart because like so many, I desperately believed it myself with my own 3 kids.  Study after study definitively demonstrate that Simethicone (the generic name for gas drops) is no more or less effective than a placebo.   What does this mean? Gas drops don’t work.  Period.

Why it’s become a parental urban legend: EVERYONE recommends Simethicone drops.  Everyone! They even have their own little section in the pharmacy department.  Once again well-meaning parents just want to help baby find some relief.  Please try to contain your shock when I tell you this, but marketing companies love to capitalize on “soothing baby” so they sell, sell, sell a harmless but useless product.

And once again it’s you and your baby who should receive the credit for getting that uncomfortable gas out of baby’s tummy.  Slow patient feeds, lots of burping and gently switching position or massaging baby to get gas out after feeding are tried and true ways to reduce gas.

What to Do to Help Eliminate Gas – While drops certainly can’t hurt there are several other options to help baby work out the gas that’s causing troubling:

  • Bicycle Kicks –like this!
  • Once again, slow feeds with lots of opportunity to burp during feeding. If bottle feeding, use the slowest nipple flow.
  • Probiotics – Probiotics to promote good gut health in baby may be recommended by your pediatrician.
  • When starting solids, give new foods for breakfast, this way baby’s system has all day to work out any issues that the new food might be causing…and by issues we mean gas! 🙂

Myth #3. Putting babies to sleep later at night means they’ll sleep later in the morning

We’ve all done this one.  According to pediatric sleep specialist, Dr. Lisa Meltzer, “the internal clock is a powerful force that typically wakes young children up around the same time every morning, no matter what time they go to sleep at night.”  This means that putting baby to sleep later robs them of sleep they should be getting.  Even worse, poor night sleep adds to the overtired cycle the next day, making it more difficult for baby to settle and rest again.

Why it’s become a parental urban legend: Because staying up late and then sleeping late seems so logical!  And we are desperate for sleep AND logic at this point! Sure there are times babies have a big day and sleep for long stretches out of sheer exhaustion, but this gives us a false positive.  Keeping baby awake longer than their bodies need may work for one night or one nap, but fighting against baby’s natural rhythms leads to true exhaustion and meltdown.

What You Can Do Instead– Unfortunately, we can’t fight a baby human’s natural body clock; this one goes in the “this too shall pass” category. Taking turns with your partner or a loving caregiver to handle early wake ups won’t cause baby to sleep later but it will help YOU to sleep later!

If you’re expecting and want more tips, visit Your First Week Home with Baby: Ultimate Q&A

Sample Sleep Schedule for a 6-7 Month Old

We’re often asked about “Getting Baby on a Schedule” here at LMS.  While baby’s routine is something that naturally emerges if we follow baby’s lead, it’s understandable that the rest of the family can benefit from predictable feeding and sleep times.    Below is a sample schedule for a typical 6/7 month old baby.  This is by no means the *only* schedule, and it’s certainly not the best schedule for everyone but if you are looking for a starting point, the Sample Sleep Schedule for a 6-7 Month Old template below is one we often use in Sleep Consultations.

helping your 6-7 month old infant sleep through the night
Sample Sleep Schedule

Sample Schedule for a 6 to 7 Month Old 

6:00am:  wake up, play and cuddle

6:30:       diaper change, get dressed, feed 6-8 ounces when baby is exhibiting signs of hunger; this can beright at wake up or after 1/2 hour or more.

8:00:       breakfast of solids: oatmeal + fruit. Give as much as s/he wants. ***Remember that any milk used to make oatmeal counts toward daily ounces. 

8:00 – 9:00:  Play

9:00 – 9:30: quieter play and wind down activities such a cuddling and books. Look for sleepy signs such as eye rubbing or disinterest in toys.   If you have trouble seeing those “sleep cues” a good rule of thumb is to place baby in the crib, after you see 1 yawn. 

9:45/10–11:00:  Nap        

11:00                   milk, 6-8 oz

12:00                   solids: grain + veg, ***top off with milk

12:00 – 1:00        activity (having a meal or snacks counts as an activity)

1:00pm – 1:30pm: wind down for nap

1:30 – 3:30:           nap

3:00:                     milk, 6-8 oz

3:00 – 5:00           activity

5:00                      dinner of solids

6:15 – 7:00           bath, milk 6-8 oz , quiet activities, low lights and in bed at 7ish

10:00p                    dreamfeed several ounces if needed to ensure she’s reached about 28 ounces. A dreamfeed is one last feed for baby.  This may not be needed at 6/7 months but we’re including it as another tool to help take away the question “What if s/he’s hungry?” when baby wakes overnight.  To do a dreamfeed, simply place breast/bottle to baby’s lips and s/he will instinctually take in what’s needed.  Do a quick diaper change at this time as well.

Things to remember:

– THIS IS JUST AN EXAMPLE.  It is FINE if your schedule differs and we should never force baby into a schedule that doesn’t work. The goal here is to give baby a start and end to the day with efficient feeds during daytime hours to set the stage for long sleep overnight.

– We are just using 6:00am as a starting point. If baby wakes earlier or later, simply adjust the schedule accordingly.

Sources:

Natasha Pressley, RN and the University of Maryland Pediatric Sleep Center

“Secrets of The Baby Whisperer”,  Melinda Blau and Tracy Hogg

The hundreds of babies our nurses and NCP’s have cared for from 2010 to the present.

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12 Holiday Activities to Do with Baby

You’ve been to Target to look at toys, decided if you’re going to be an “elf on the shelf” family and started cooking traditional holiday foods. Here are 12 Holiday Activities to Do with Baby to keep the holidays going that you may not have thought of!

1)   Make a Child-Sized Holiday Light Display! All you need is a large box and some LED lights that can’t get too hot! diyjoy.com calls this a Cave of Stars! We love this because it’s a great activity for siblings to do together and you probably have all the items on hand already!

happy infant playing in a cardboard box
Cave of Stars via diyjoy.com

2)   Read holiday themed board books: Whatever holiday you celebrate, there is a board book about it! And the holidays are the perfect time to learn about other cultural traditions too! Babies are never too young for books or learning about the world!

3)   Drive or stroll around to view decorations and lights:  Babies love to look at lights! Whether you go to an organized festival of lights or simply stroll or drive around your neighborhood, the light show will fascinate baby! Many towns have holiday light shows where you never leave the car too. Let baby experience the magic of lights BONUS: time your ride for an hour or so before bedtime for an easy wind-down!

4)   Sing holiday songs to your baby: Baby doesn’t care that you’re not a finalist on The Voice.  Belt out some traditional tunes. If baby is old enough, add some instruments and shakers and have baby play along.

5)   Buy special holiday or winter themed pajamas: Get cute and cozy with seasonal pj’s for your little one. Bonus points if the whole family has matching pajamas!

6)   Create a keepsake such as a plate or ornament: Commemorate this special milestone by capture his/her little handprint or footprint on a plate or ornament. Many paint-your-own pottery places offer these in studio or buy a take-home kit at a craft store, baby store, or online. 

7)   Use edible finger-paints to make a holiday craft: Crafts and holidays go hand in hand, but many of the materials on the market are not safe when digested.  We are huge fans of natural, edible fingerpaints which contain ingredients that are baby-safe, organic, vegan and have no wheat, sugar, or preservatives. Plus, they are made with real fruits and vegetables!

8)   Create a holiday themed sensory table/tub: Place wrapping paper, bows, a soft snowman in a big tub, and let baby touch, rub, shake, and play with the items to build tactile development and fine motor skills.

9)   Make a holiday felt board: Make or buy a felt Christmas Tree, Snowman, Menorah, or other holiday themed feltboard, and baby can safely “decorate the tree” or “light” some candles. There are a lot of fun options on Amazon! Bonus: Play, sing, and talk to baby using a holiday-themed puppet!

10) Have an indoor snowball fight! That’s right…a bucket of plush white “snowballs” can’t hurt anyone or anything in the house. At less than $20 this fun toy is a great investment in laughs and memories for years to come.

11)  Start the tradition of giving: Even though baby is too young for an American Express card, give special gifts in baby’s honor to friends and family members.  Teach your infant the joy of giving.

12)   Facetime/Zoom relatives and friends that are far away. Looking at pictures on Facebook is nice, but those who are far away really want to see baby in action.  Set up a computer date and share some special conversation!

12 Holiday Activities to Do with Baby

The Four Month Sleep Regression Explained

Four Month Sleep Regression Explained- reviewed by Pam Jones, RN, 25+ year postpartum nurse and sleep coach, updated 8/16/2025.

The 4-Month Sleep Regression Explained in 30 Seconds

Newborns only go through 2 stages of sleep, but at 4 months old begin maturing into the 4 stages of sleep that we keep for the rest of our lives. The two new stages include lighter sleep. The 2 new stages mean more frequent night wakings and shorter naps. This is because for the first time in baby’s whole life, it’s easier for them to get woken up and they don’t yet know how to get themselves back to sleep.

During this time, many parents report that naps that used to be consistent suddenly shrink from 90 to 30 minutes, or that their baby starts being wide awake every 2 hours again. These changes can seem like baby’s sleep is taking a step backward, but they’re actually signs that your infant’s sleep cycles are maturing.

It’s a normal progression that happens before your baby is able to sleep longer stretches overnight. It can be frustrating but knowing why and when it’s happening, and being prepared to ease the transition can help. Sticking to consistent routines, using soothing techniques like a pacifier and trying to let your baby fall asleep independently can all help with the transition to more mature sleep.

The 4 Stages of the Sleep Cycle

In order to understand how your full-term baby is developing with regard to sleep around four month’s old, we first need talk about sleep in general.

Many of us just think of sleep as an on-or-off situation. You’re either asleep or you’re not. But sleep actually has a number of different stages that make up the “sleep cycle.” Starting at 4 months old, the brain matures into going through all 4 of the stages several times a night and this is the cycle we use for the rest of our lives.

  • Stage 1 is that initial stage we’re all familiar with where you can just feel yourself drifting off, but don’t really feel like you’ve fallen asleep. In this stage, you could still hear your name if someone called you and it’s very easy to wake up.
  • Stage 2, considered the first “true sleep” stage. This is where people tend to realize, once woken up, that they actually were sleeping.
  • Stage 3 is deep and regenerative. Also known as “slow wave” sleep, this is where the body starts repairing and rejuvenating the immune system, muscles tissue, energy stores, and sparks growth and development.
  • Stage 4 is REM (rapid eye movement) sleep. This is where the brain starts to kick in and consolidates information and memories from the day before. It’s also the stage where we do most of our dreaming.
The 4 Stages of the Sleep Cycle compiled by Let Mommy Sleep

Once we’ve gone through all of the stages, we either wake up, or come close to waking up, and then start over again until morning.

Sleep from Newborn to 4 Month’s Old

Newborn babies only have 2 stages of sleep; stage 3 and REM. They spend about half their sleep in each stage. At around the third or fourth month, there’s a reorganization of sleep, as they embrace the 4-stage met.hod of sleep described above. And as the AAP notes, babies don’t have regular sleep cycles until about 4 months of age

When the change to the 4 stage method of sleep takes place, baby moves from 50% REM sleep to 25%, in order to make room for those first two stages. Although REM sleep is light, it’s not as light as the 2 new stages of sleep they’re getting used to. With more time spent in lighter sleep, there’s more of a chance that baby will wake up.

Waking up is absolutely natural, and we continue to wake up three, four, five times a night into adulthood. As adults however, we’re able to recognize that we’re in bed and safe and we go back to sleep. This usually happens so quickly that we don’t even remember in the morning.

For a four-month old infant though, these types of wake-ups are something they’ve never experienced before in their whole life! So it makes sense that they need our help to get back to sleep. Whether they’re usually rocked back to sleep, need a pacifier or just need reassurance, your baby most likely will not go back to sleep without your help, and a normal bedtime routine includes your help at this point. (Mayo Clinic)

The Four Month Sleep Regression Explained for newborns and infants
The Four Month Sleep Regression Explained

How to Get through the Four Month Sleep Regression

Other contributor to infant’s waking up more often overnight, is that their “normal” is facilitating sleep with a pacifier, by being rocked or by being breastfed. Let me say this part in all caps though: getting baby to sleep these ways are ALL NECESSARY, NORMAL AND NOT “BAD HABITS.”

To get through the 4 month sleep regression, or any sleep disturbances you can:

  • Use a pacifier – At 4 months, more time is spent in light sleep with higher probability of waking up. If you’re baby is used to a pacifier, be ready to replace the paci multiple times per night since they’re still too small to do it.
  • Keep the room dark – Newborns and infants are not afraid of the dark. They are however, responsive to light. Light tells our brains that it’s time for activity and alertness, and the brain secretes hormones accordingly, so we want to keep the sleep area darkened, eliminating sunlight and possible flashes of light during naps and bedtime.
  • and use white noise – The other nemesis of sleep is noise. With more time spent in lighter sleep, noises can startle baby awake so white noise is a great addition to your nursery.
  • Instill a bedtime routine – Bedtime routines should be about 20 – 30 minutes long, and baby should go into their crib while they’re still awake. Feeding should happen first, with whatever calm activity baby likes second and then a diaper change and PJs at the end.

Sleeping through the Night and the Four Month Sleep Regression

If your goal is sleep training after 4 months, when the pediatrician agrees it’s appropriate for baby to sleep long stretches, you’ll need to instill a new part of the bedtime routine to replace the milk = sleep association. Here’s what that means:

  • Offer breast or bottle when your baby wakes for the day and after naps. Babies are naturally hungry then of course, and feeding while they’re most alert gives their bodies plenty of time to digest before the next sleep.
  • Include a feed at the start of the 20-30 minute bedtime routine. This way the bottle isn’t the last step before sleep and baby will not be using milk as their tool to getting to sleep. Feeding at the beginning of the wind down routine also guarantees you a diaper change, and a clean diaper right before baby goes down for the night.
  • If baby always falls asleep while feeding, they’ll associate bottle or breast with sleep, making it harder to learn how to fall asleep on their own.

Note: With newborns, you can’t prevent them from nodding off at the breast or bottle and that’s okay. RN Heidi explains this in The NoClock Nursing Method As babies get older, they naturally stay awake for feeds, which makes this routine possible.

Four month old infants typically go about two hours between snoozes, with bedtime between 7 and 8 at night. Once babies graduate from the four month sleep progression, they follow the sleep patterns they’ll have for the rest of their lives…four stages repeated multiple times a night! Of course, you may have to sleep train to fully help them sleep through the night if that’s something you want to do, the Ultimate Guide to Baby Sleep Training has step by step instructions.

Four Month Sleep Regression FAQ’s

1. How long does the 4-month sleep regression last?
Most babies experience this sleep disruption for 2 to 6 weeks. Once they adjust to their new sleep cycles nighttime sleep and naps gradually improve.

2. Is sleep training safe at 4 months?
Gentle sleep training can begin around 4 months for full-term, healthy babies but always check with your pediatrician first as babies’ developmental and physical readiness varies. Start by focusing on consistent routines that gradually wean feeding overnight rather than a “cry it out” method.

3. Can teething cause sleep regression?
Teething doesn’t cause an entirely new regression, but discomfort can worsen existing sleep challenges and cause waking overnight.

4. Should I feed my baby during night wakings at 4 months?
Many 4-month-olds still need 1–2 nighttime feeds, depending on weight and feeding history. With your pediatrician’s approval you can gradually lessening the amount taken at each feed to pave the way for falling back asleep independently.

5. When should I call my pediatrician about sleep issues?
If your baby’s sleep suddenly changes along with poor feeding, weight loss, or signs of illness, check in with your pediatrician. Persistent sleep problems beyond 6 weeks may indicate another issue worth evaluating.

This article was written with input and review from Pam Jones, RN. Pam has provided traveling in-home newborn and postpartum care for families since 2009. She has been a Registered Nurse for 25 years and is also a Sleep Consultant and Author of Raising Confident Parents: Secrets from Baby Nurses and Parents about Pregnancy, Infant Care, and Achieving Sweet Dreams. This article is for educational purposes only and does not replace medical advice. Always consult your pediatrician if you have concerns about your baby’s sleep.

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6 Easy Tips to Help Your Reflux Baby

updated, December 1, 2025 – To help newborns and infants with reflux, we need to first understand what reflux is and then find comfort techniques. Our team of night nannies presents advice to help here, with 6 Easy Tips to Help Your Reflux Baby.

While the only true remedy for reflux is time, there are some techniques to help keep your baby comfortable during and after feeding. Let’s take all the reflux questions one by one:

Tips to Help Your Reflux Baby

What is reflux?

Reflux is a backward flow of the contents of the stomach into the esophagus that causes heartburn. It is one of the most common conditions newborns face and is often caused by the esophageal sphincter valve not being fully developed. This causes milk to come back up the esophagus through the throat and causes baby to spit up and vomit. When the contents of the stomach come back up, it is usually mixed with some stomach acid, which creates a burning sensation.

How can I reduce my baby’s reflux?

Keep your baby upright during and after feedings for 20-30 minutes, burp frequently, offer smaller, more frequent meals and use paced feeding. Wearing your baby in an upright carrier also helps gravity keep stomach contents down, reducing discomfort and spitting up.

Why is burping important for reflux babies?

Burping removes air swallowed during feeding, which can push milk back into the esophagus. Frequent burping keeps the stomach less pressured and helps your baby feed more comfortably.

How do smaller, more frequent feeds help reflux?

A full stomach can increase pressure on the esophageal sphincter, forcing milk back up. Feeding smaller amounts more often reduces this pressure, prevents overfeeding, and helps your baby digest milk more comfortably.

What is paced feeding and how does it help reflux?

For bottle-fed babies, paced feeding lets the baby control milk flow. Hold the bottle slightly reclined, let them pull the nipple in and take breaks as needed. This prevents overfeeding and reduces air intake, keeping reflux and discomfort minimal.

Here’s how to pace-feed:

  1. Keep baby in a slightly reclined position so that the bottle isn’t pouring down and your baby can control the flow of milk/formula.
  2. Let baby pull the nipple into his mouth. Once latched, keep the bottle just above horizontal.
  3. Continue feeding this way. This allows baby to control the flow of milk better without taking in air. This also helps your baby to feed at their own pace, which keeps them more comfortable.

As Jordan Stubblefield, CLC says, It’s not so much air intake, as it is pacing the baby! Pace feeding helps to not overfeed by allowing baby to take breaks when they want, and following babies cues.

What should I do to reduce reflux if I’m breastfeeding?

If you’re breastfeeding, La Leche League recommends trying to have baby nurse at one breast only at each feeding. This avoids two strong milk ejections, therefore reducing overfeeding and excess swallowing of air. Also, leading sources in breastfeeding including LLL and KellyMom agree that in general spicy foods do not contribute to infant reflux.

Can wearing my baby reduce reflux?

Yes, upright baby carriers help gravity keep stomach contents down. Being snugly carried also helps babies relax their muscles, reducing tension and making feeding and digestion more comfortable.

Are preemies or twins more prone to reflux?

Premature babies and twins often have immature digestive systems, which increases reflux risk. The same feeding and comfort strategies work, but extra attention may be needed to keep them comfortable. Additonally, preemies who have spent time in the NICU may have other issues compounding digestive challenges.

Does gripe water help reflux?

There is no evidence that gripe water helps babies with reflux. However, some babies have trouble digesting lactose in milk which can lead to bloating, gas and discomfort and some medications can help under the direction of a physician.

The only cure for reflux is time, as newborns and infant systems may need a few months to fully develop. However we have more tips on keeping baby comfortable at 10 Ways to Calm a Fussy Baby. And you can always ask our team of night nurses and postpartum doulas any questions on Reddit.

For more tips like these please visit Your Newborn and Postpartum Questions Answered: Expert Advice from Let Mommy Sleep
And if it’s your first week home with baby, read Your First Week Home with Baby: Ultimate Q&A