Even with all the sleep advice out there, it can be hard to know how to transition your little one from the crib into their big-kid bed. Looking out for signs of readiness, safety and the set-up of your home are all considerations when making the switch. This blog, How to Ease Toddlers Into Big-Kid Beds will help you identify when and how to make this milestone a healthy and happy one.

Key Takeaways of How to Ease Toddlers Into Big-Kid Beds
- There are clear signs, such as climbing out of the crib, that your older baby or toddler is ready to leave the crib.
- The “stay in bed” instruction can be too abstract for children under age 3 so there’s no need to rush.
- When they’re ready follow the 5 Steps of Sleep for a smooth transition.
- Every child is different and there are many options for how to ease toddlers into big-kid beds
When is the Right Time?
While creating a “big kid” room can be exciting, research consistently shows that waiting until close to age 3 to transition to a toddler bed leads to better sleep outcomes. That’s because in the late 2’s and early 3’s, most toddlers are physically outgrowing the crib, while at the same time, are developmentally able to understand the expectation of staying in their own bed for the night. Therefore, timing the switch around your child’s readiness means fewer bedtime battles, fewer night wakings, and longer stretches of consolidated sleep.
There are a few clear signs that your older baby or toddler is ready to leave the crib:
- They’re climbing out of the crib consistently: This simply becomes a safety issue. Before transitioning, try lowering the mattress, using a sleep sack, or placing the crib in a corner to prevent climbing.
- They’re asking for a big kid bed: Some kids express this readiness themselves, usually after age 3.
- Your toddler is able to comprehend instructions such as “stay here” or “stay in your room while the light is red” if you’re using visual cues.
- And of course, if baby is too big to fit in the crib, it’s time to move them to a more appropriate space.
If none of these signs are present, there’s no need to rush the transition. Most 2-year-olds are still learning impulse control and rule-following, so the “stay in bed” instruction can be too abstract for children under age 3. On that note, if you’re expecting a new baby soon, don’t add stress by forcing an early transition just to free up the crib. Consider using an infant safe sleep space like a bassinet or play yard for the newborn instead.
On the other hand, even if your child is exhibiting all the signs of readiness, it’s important to remember that the actual transition time may take several nights or even a few weeks. Your child may need to practice staying in the bed or getting comfortable and that is perfectly fine!
How to Ease Toddlers Into Big-Kid Beds: 5 Steps of Sleep
If your toddler is ready, here are 5 steps of sleep to ensure a smooth. peaceful transition:
- Make the room safe: Anchor furniture, remove hazards, and think from your toddler’s perspective.
- Involve your child: Let them pick sheets, try out a single size mattress or choose a stuffed animal to bring to bed.
- Set expectations: Practice staying in bed and use visual cues like OK-to-wake clocks.
- Stick to routines: Keep the bedtime routine familiar and calm.
- Have a plan for boundary-testing: What will you do if they get out of bed? If you prefer them to stay in their own bed for the entire night, you can gently but consistently return them to bed if they get out.
There are Plenty of Options
There’s no rush to transition into the big kid bed. You can also skip a toddler bed altogether and move straight to a twin bed. A larger bed can grow with your child for years to come, making it a worthwhile investment and one less transition down the line. To make the twin bed extra safe, you can include a guardrail or keep the mattress low to the floor without a boxspring.
As you move through this milestone, remember that every child is unique, and there is no one ‘right’ timeline for making the switch from a crib to a bed. And while there are many night nannies, doulas and toddler experts out there, you’re the expert in your child. What matters most is creating an environment that is safe and inviting for your little one. Whether the transition happens in 1 night or over the course of a week or 2, the change from crib-to-bed isn’t just about a bed. It’s about nurturing your child’s growing independence and setting the stage for restful, happy sleep.