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How to Swaddle Like a Pro

There’s a reason why every newborn in the hospital looks like a little burrito! Swaddling is one of the simplest and most effective ways to soothe a newborn and help them sleep better at night. Many parents tell us their baby “doesn’t like” to be swaddled, but in most cases, the wrap just isn’t snug enough. A properly fitted swaddle mimics the secure feeling of being in the womb and helps calm babies who haven’t yet developed control of their arms and legs.

As Nurse Ashley demonstrates in our video, swaddling like a pro takes only a few tries to master, and the results are worth it. Babies sleep longer and more soundly when they feel snug and contained.

How to Swaddle Like a Pro

How to Swaddle Like a Pro by night nurse Ashley
How to swaddle like a pro!

Why Swaddling Works
One reason swaddling is so effective is because it helps calm the Moro reflex, also known as the startle reflex. This is a completely normal, involuntary movement that all newborns have, where their bodies move as if startled. It’s a sign of a healthy nervous system and usually fades by 3 to 4 months of age. However, in the early weeks, the Moro reflex can cause babies to wake themselves up just as they’re falling asleep. A snug, safe swaddle helps limit those jerky movements so baby can stay asleep longer and feel secure, while still allowing the hips and legs to move naturally.

Safe Swaddling Basics

  • Don’t swaddle the legs – It’s important to wrap only the torso and arms, never the newborn’s legs. Wrapping a baby’s legs down tightly can cause hip dysplasia, a condition where the hip joint doesn’t form properly. As the International Hip Dysplasia Institute states, Avoidance of forced or sustained passive hip extension and adduction in the first few months of life is essential for proper hip development. The American Academy of Pediatrics and also agrees that a safe swaddle allows the hips and legs to bend and move freely.
  • Stop Swaddling when Baby Begins Rolling Over – Stop swaddling when baby begins to show signs of rolling over, which often happens around 2 or 3 months. For some babies, this can happen as early as 8 weeNot too aHotks. Even if your baby still enjoys being wrapped, it becomes unsafe once rolling begins. If your baby frequently breaks out of the swaddle or resists being wrapped, it’s also time to stop.
  • No Weighted Products – Do not use weighted swaddles, weighted sleep sacs or weighted blankets. They can place too much pressure on a baby’s chest and lungs and go against AAP safe sleep guidelines.
  • Not too Hot – Remember a swaddle blanket is another layer of clothing. Keep your home at a comfortable temperature and monitor baby to make sure they’re not getting too hot.

When to Swaddle and When Not To

Giving your baby lots of time outside the swaddle is great for their development too! Tummy time, being held facing out or even flat on their back in a safe spot all help strengthen muscles and coordination. Swaddling is for sleep and soothing, not for all-day use.

Transitioning Out of the Swaddle
You can help your baby adjust gradually by first leaving one arm out for several nights. Once they’re comfortable, let both arms out while keeping the wrap snug around the torso. After a few nights, you can eliminate the swaddle blanket altogether and transition to a sleep sack or wearable blanket.

Swaddling Troubleshooting

If your baby keeps breaking out, the blanket may be too small or loosely wrapped. Try a larger muslin or receiving blanket, or double-wrap using the techniques shown in our video. If your baby seems warm or fussy, make sure the room temperature is between 68–72°F and use a lightweight fabric. Babies who resist the swaddle may be approaching the rolling stage, in which case it’s time to start transitioning.

In our years of providing overnight newborn care, we’ve seen how proper swaddling helps reduce overstimulation and promote restful sleep. A snug, safe wrap helps babies calm more quickly and allows parents to get longer stretches of rest too. Always place your baby on their back to sleep and follow the 10 Steps to Safe Sleep for Baby.

For more baby care videos, visit our YouTube channel and to answer other newborn care questions, visit Your First Week Home with Baby: Ultimate Q&A

In addition to safe swaddling, your baby should always be placed on their back to sleep and following the 10 Steps to Safe Sleep for Baby.

And for more tips, visit Your Newborn and Postpartum Questions Answered: Expert Advice from Let Mommy Sleep

Baby Monitor App Safety

In this digital age of parenting, baby monitors and apps for smartphones are the norm. As with anything connected to wi-fi, they’re not perfectly safe though. We’ve all read stories where hackers have yelled at babies or turned on the camera to watch what’s happening in the nursery.  Breastfeeding moms, sleeping babies and families going about their day have had their privacy invaded by online predators. Here are some simple things you can do to ensure security and Baby Monitor App Safety.

Baby Monitor App Safety
Baby Monitors

The main concern with anything wireless is that the signal can be found if users have default or easy to figure out passwords. When this happens, the signal can be hijacked. Hackers can then view all the traffic on the network. They can then easily communicate with your baby, or see what’s happening on camera. As a dad whose monitor was hacked in his young daughter’s room said, “I felt like somebody broke into our house.”

Baby Monitor App Safety

To avoid vulnerability to hackers:

  1. Make sure your home WiFi network is locked down as much as possible to prevent hacking by turning on the router’s built in firewall.
  2. Use strong alphanumeric passwords and special characters.  If your password is difficult to guess, most hackers won’t even bother.
  3. Change the default IP range to WPA2
  4. Create a new admin account on the WiFi router (no “admin” or “administrator” usernames) and disable/delete the default admin account .

Although nothing is foolproof, using the steps above makes your smartphone baby apps less vulnerable. This helps create a secure environment for your baby. Another option is to use an app that triggers a warning if it senses illegal entry. And of course, you can always go old-school with he walkie-talkie style monitors that don’t require internet!

One last thing – when your child is old enough to use a smartphone remember to keep *it* secure too!

Subscription Boxes for Parents

Subscription boxes can be used to count down to baby’s arrival or help new moms and dads in the first few months of baby’s life. Our round-up of unique subscription boxes for new & expecting parents is below!

Subscription Boxes for Parents

Subscription Boxes for Parents

Expecting and new parents usually have everything they need for baby. Travel apparel, diapers, nursery decor and fun onesies fill their homes! But many parents forget about themselves! We researched subscription boxes just for new moms and dads because they’re more than a gift, they’re a reminder for parents to care for themselves. For families that are spread out and parents who put self-care last on their list, a subscription box might be the perfect gift.

Here are a few of our favorites: 

NoirePack Coffee Subscription – This box hardly needs an explanation.A collection from Washington States finest Campfires Coffee Co., a Black Owned company. For parents who love coffee and the caffeine that comes with it, this 6 month subscription is a perfect pick me up for postpartum parents. Each month’s box includes 4 different sample size coffees from local Seattle roasters. 

Leggings Subscription: A unique gift after the postpartum phase these leggings of the month ensure moms are cozy and comfortable. It can be hard for moms to find time to shop for themselves after baby is born. Receiving these cute leggings and the thoughtfulness behind them may be just what a mom needs. 

Date Night in a Box: Couples can reconnect without having to leave the house or hiring a babysitter!  The inventors of Crated with Love are a family therapist and her husband, and together they’ve designed activities that aim to “inspire laughter and create quality one-on-one time” at home.

TheraBox: TheraBox is the #1 selling self-care box. With the tagline of “Happiness in a Box” we can see why! TheraBox includes aromatherapy, mindfulness activities, organic bath products and more. They promise over $100 in retail value per month. Subscriptions can last as long or as short as you’d like. 

Don’t Forget to Eat!

And Snacks, Snacks, Snacks: Nutritious foods parents can eat with one hand are not only thoughtful but completely necessary! From international fare to traditional snacks, there is a subscription box for every new and expecting parent.

Whether your loved one is pregnant or expecting, a subscription box can show you’re thinking of them even when you can’t be there.  You can see our full list of subscription box picks on our Amazon shop!

CPSC tips to Prevent Tip-Overs

In the United States, a child dies about every 11 days when a TV, furniture, or appliance falls on them.  14,000 children are injured every year. About 70 percent of tip-over fatalities involve children ages 1 1/2 to 3 years old and these incidents are preventable.   The Consumer Product Safety Commission’s (CPSC) Anchor It! Campaign educates parents and caregivers that anchoring is simple, inexpensive and important.  These tips and resources from the campaign show how to prevent tip-overs to help you create a home and child-care space that is babyproofed from furniture being pulled over.

Here’s how to Prevent Tip-Overs

  • Anchor all furniture, dressers, armoires, and bookshelves to the wall.
  • Secure TVs to the wall or base/TV stand and recycle older, unused TVs
  • Check for and act on recalls of products that present tip-over hazards
  • Read Essential Guide: How To Prepare Your Home for a Newborn to learn more about safe home organization

Be sure to anchor before your baby arrives or before s/he becomes mobile. Babies begin to crawl as early as 6 months and they may be “grabbing” well before then.  “The to-do list when a new baby arrives can feel overwhelming. It doesn’t matter whether you anchor furniture and TVs before baby arrives or once they start to sit up and become mobile – the important thing is getting it done. Anchoring furniture and TVs is fairly inexpensive and simple to do – even when you’re sleep-deprived.  Anchoring only takes about five minutes, and it could save your child’s life.”  

Meghan DeLong’s 2-year-old son passed away on Mother’s Day 2017 when his dresser tipped over on him.  Meghan is now the Founder and President of Conner’s Legacy Foundation, Inc. The mission of the organization is to promote education, advocacy, and resources for the awareness of furniture tip-over prevention at the community level and the national level by sharing Conner’s story, providing community outreach and education, and encouraging mandatory regulation standards for furniture. 

In addition to anchoring furniture, being attentive to stairs in the home and fall risks are crucial. Falls are a leading cause of non-fatal injury for children, but there are simple ways of Preventing Falls to Keep Baby Safe.

Keep your child, and those in your care, safe by following the guidelines laid out by the CPSC and the suggestions of Connor’s Legacy Foundation. For more babyproofing info please visit our blog about How to Create a Safe Nursery.

CPSC tips to Prevent Tip-Overs
CPSC tips to Prevent Tip-Overs

Toys Siblings Can Play with Together!

Updated November 19, 2023 – If you’re expecting your second, it’s normal to worry about how you’ll manage your time with a newborn and older child. How will you keep everyone happy and occupied? And what about twins…how will you handle 2 babies and then 2 toddlers?  Our night nanny and postpartum doula team have a few suggestion to help your days go smoothly in this blog, Toys Siblings Can Play with Together!

 Toys Siblings Can Play with Together!

Toys Siblings Can Play with Together – Our Faves

We’ve got a full list of toys siblings can play with together on Amazon. Here are a few of our favorites:

  • The Aqua Magic Mat is a 40″ x 60″ is colorful and meant to be drawn on, so the baby can have tummy time alongside older kids. There are pens and small parts that come with this toy so supervision is of course a must. You can always add a separate playmat for baby on the side too.
  • Step 2’s Walk-In Play Kitchen is big enough for 2 or 3 kids to cook and create together and looks like a modern kitchen! It’s all wood, includes 15 play pieces and has moveable parts at all levels so even babies who aren’t standing yet can parallel play and watch.
  • Jumbo Foam Blocks are basically giant soft Legos! They’re sturdy and have endless possibilities for safe play.
  • For toddlers, the 40 piece cardboard block set with 3 different sized blocks means even more building! While you’ll probably have these for many years, parents should know that each of the 40 pieces must be put together individually.
  • The full set of Elephant & Piggie books. Go ahead and do yourself a favor and just buy all 25 books. We PROMISE your reading age child will adore reading these aloud to their baby brother or sister. And if you want to read aloud to the kids, Elephant & Piggie stories are warm, hilarious and often have a funny twist at the end. 
  • 4-in-1 Activity Center – This toy is not to be used without adult supervision but we love it because for less than $150 you’ll have a toy that occupies several kids at a time for years! Your baby will learn so much just from being held while watching the older kids slide, climb and shoot hoops! see the next section for more on this!

What the Experts Say About The Power of Play

Sibling Bonding and Play

While fostering good sibling relationships is ultimately up to the kids themselves, we parents can help the process along!  A Georgetown study notes that “Infants with siblings imitated more behaviour without explicit instruction than did infants without siblings.”  That means your little ones do learn from their older brothers and sisters. In addition to nurturing your infant with baby-age activities yourself, it’s great to encourage cooperation, bonding and good old laughter with toys kids can explore together.

If you’re expecting twins, toys such as an extra large playmat or other toys might be helpful. This blog So You’re Having Twins! Proven Support and Fun Facts has more helpful info for parents of twins and higher order multiples.

newborns, infants, twins and toddlers can all play together

You Are Your Child’s Favorite Toy

As the Zero to Three foundation says, whether you have 2 or more children or are a one and done family, you are your child’s favorite toy. You don’t need fancy or expensive items to nurture your newborn, infant or toddler. Understanding what your baby will respond to at each age makes development fun and educational for the whole family.

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new baby laughing with mom