{"id":3775,"date":"2023-08-22T01:35:21","date_gmt":"2023-08-22T01:35:21","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/letmommysleep.com\/blog\/?p=3775"},"modified":"2026-09-11T19:27:40","modified_gmt":"2026-09-11T19:27:40","slug":"ultimate-guide-to-baby-sleep-training","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/letmommysleep.com\/blog\/2023\/08\/22\/ultimate-guide-to-baby-sleep-training\/","title":{"rendered":"Ultimate Guide to Baby Sleep Training"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"has-regular-font-size wp-block-paragraph\"><em>updated, October 23, 2025<\/em> &#8211; Written and medically reviewed by the Registered Nurse Advisory Board of Let Mommy Sleep<br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-regular-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">One of the most common questions our&nbsp;night doulas and newborn caregivers&nbsp;receive is: \u201cCan you help our newborn get on a routine and sleep through the night?\u201d It\u2019s completely natural for parents to crave predictability after their baby arrives. There isn\u2019t one \u201cright\u201d way to help babies sleep, but there&nbsp;<em>are<\/em>&nbsp;evidence-based, gentle methods that support both infant development and family wellbeing.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-regular-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">That\u2019s why we created&nbsp;The Ultimate Guide to Baby Sleep Training, so families everywhere can access practical, expert guidance.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-regular-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">Baby sleep training means helping your infant sleep 6 or more hours overnight without unnecessary waking. Most babies are ready around 4 months and 14 pounds with pediatrician approval. This guide covers when to start, which methods work, and how Let Mommy Sleep&#8217;s Slingshot Method supports the process.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading has-regular-font-size\">TL;DR: Quick Start to Helping Your Infant Sleep through the Night<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-regular-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">Here\u2019s the condensed version:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li class=\"has-regular-font-size\">Wait until baby is about&nbsp;4 months old and 14 pounds, with pediatrician approval.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li class=\"has-regular-font-size\">Ensure baby\u2019s environment follows&nbsp;safe sleep guidelines&nbsp;(flat surface, back to sleep, no weighted blankets).<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li class=\"has-regular-font-size\">Consolidate feeds&nbsp;to daytime and gradually&nbsp;wean overnight feeds.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li class=\"has-regular-font-size\">Use a consistent&nbsp;bedtime routine&nbsp;and choose a gentle, structured sleep training method (like the Slingshot Method).<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li class=\"has-regular-font-size\">Stay consistent for&nbsp;10\u201314 days&nbsp;while tracking progress.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image aligncenter size-full is-resized is-style-default\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"940\" height=\"788\" src=\"https:\/\/letmommysleep.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/Ultimate-Guide-to-Baby-Sleep-Training-1.png\" alt=\"The Ultimate Guide to Baby Sleep Training\" class=\"wp-image-3789\" style=\"aspect-ratio:1.1928934010152283;width:394px;height:auto\" srcset=\"https:\/\/letmommysleep.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/Ultimate-Guide-to-Baby-Sleep-Training-1.png 940w, https:\/\/letmommysleep.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/Ultimate-Guide-to-Baby-Sleep-Training-1-300x251.png 300w, https:\/\/letmommysleep.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/Ultimate-Guide-to-Baby-Sleep-Training-1-768x644.png 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 940px) 100vw, 940px\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Ultimate Guide to Baby Sleep Training<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading has-regular-font-size\">Should You Sleep Train?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-regular-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">For this guide, \u201csleep training\u201d means helping your baby sleep&nbsp;<strong>at least 6 hours overnight&nbsp;<\/strong>without unnecessary waking or feeding.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-regular-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">This topic sparks strong opinions, and the fact is both sides are right!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li class=\"has-regular-font-size\">YES, you should comfort your baby and meet their needs.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li class=\"has-regular-font-size\">ALSO YES, it\u2019s healthy for your baby to learn to sleep independently if that\u2019s right for your family.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-regular-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">Maternal mood and overall family wellbeing improve&nbsp;when parents get uninterrupted sleep.  In fact,<em> <\/em>maternal mood scales statistically significantly <a href=\"https:\/\/pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/articles\/PMC5962992\/\" title=\"improved\">improved<\/a><em> <\/em>when moms and dads get sleep. And we know there&#8217;s a direct correlation between <a href=\"https:\/\/letmommysleep.com\/blog\/2023\/03\/10\/sleep-deprivation-and-postpartum-depression-proven-tips-to-help\/\">Sleep Deprivation and Postpartum Depression<\/a>. In other words, in a time where many of us don\u2019t have loved ones to help care for our little children, we have to be our own little Village. This means using tools like sleep training to help the whole family function in a healthy way.&nbsp;  <\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading has-black-color has-text-color has-regular-font-size\" style=\"font-style:normal;font-weight:400\"><strong>Managing Expectations<\/strong>: <strong>When to Start Sleep Training<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-dark-color has-text-color has-regular-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">Every baby is different of course but in general, 4 months and 14 pounds is a good time to start sleep training a full term baby. Here&#8217;s why: <\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list has-regular-font-size\">\n<li>because this is usually when baby has physically grown enough to be able to skip nighttime feeds; their stomach is big enough to hold enough calories to keep them feeling fuller, longer. <\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>they&#8217;ve developed the hormone<em> melatonin <\/em>which induces sleep.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-regular-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">The 4 month pediatrician visit is the ideal time to confirm readiness for sleep training. This way you get the pediatrician&#8217;s confirmation that baby is ready to begin.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-regular-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">NOTE: Yes, we all have that friend whose child started sleeping through the night earlier than 16 weeks!  And that&#8217;s great! And you and your pediatrician might agree that sleep training earlier is fine&#8230;<em><strong>and that&#8217;s also okay!<\/strong> <\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-regular-font-size wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>What&nbsp;<\/strong><em><strong>Should Not<\/strong><\/em><strong><em>&nbsp;<\/em>Happen When Sleep Training:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-regular-font-size wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Don&#8217;t &#8220;Sleep Train&#8221; a Newborn <\/strong>&#8211; There&#8217;s no reason to let a newborn (baby aged 1 -3 months old) cry it out. Crying indicates a need.<em> As <a href=\"https:\/\/letmommysleep.com\/chicago\/meet-the-postpartum-doula\" title=\"Night Doula\">Night Doula<\/a> Erin says, Newborns don&#8217;t learn *not* to be hungry, uncomfortable or scared. <\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li class=\"has-regular-font-size\"><strong>Don\u2019t let newborns \u201ccry it out.\u201d<\/strong>&nbsp;They\u2019re not manipulating you. They\u2019re adapting to life outside the womb.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li class=\"has-regular-font-size\"><strong>Frequent, on-demand feeding<\/strong>&nbsp;every 2\u20133 hours is normal and healthy.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li class=\"has-regular-font-size\"><strong>Avoid rigid routines<\/strong> &#8211;&nbsp;Unless medically directed (e.g., NICU grads, preemies, jaundice), newborns don\u2019t need strict schedules. Your baby&#8217;s natural clock will emerge if you remain responsive to their hunger and sleepy cues.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-regular-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">If it feels like baby sleep is a battle, pause and reset. Following your baby\u2019s cues is the foundation of every effective sleep plan.  Learn the <a href=\"https:\/\/letmommysleep.com\/blog\/2022\/01\/02\/top-3-infant-sleep-myths\/\">Top 3 Infant Sleep Myths<\/a> to understand common infant sleep misconceptions. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image aligncenter size-full is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"940\" height=\"788\" src=\"https:\/\/letmommysleep.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/@letmommysleep.png\" alt=\"Newborns need attention, not sleep training.\" class=\"wp-image-3795\" style=\"aspect-ratio:1.1928934010152283;width:355px;height:auto\" srcset=\"https:\/\/letmommysleep.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/@letmommysleep.png 940w, https:\/\/letmommysleep.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/@letmommysleep-300x251.png 300w, https:\/\/letmommysleep.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/@letmommysleep-768x644.png 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 940px) 100vw, 940px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading has-dark-color has-text-color has-regular-font-size\" style=\"font-style:normal;font-weight:400\"><strong>Understanding Infant Sleep Development<\/strong> &#8211; <strong>Ultimate Guide to Baby Sleep Training <\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading has-regular-font-size\">The 4 Stages of Sleep<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-regular-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">Adults experience four distinct sleep stages, but&nbsp;newborns only have two. Newborns gradually develop the full 4-stage cycle around&nbsp;3\u20134 months, as melatonin levels mature.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-regular-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">The 2 sleep stages newborns have are: <\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li class=\"has-regular-font-size\"><strong>Quiet Sleep (Deep Sleep)<\/strong>&nbsp;\u2013 restorative, growth-focused.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li class=\"has-regular-font-size\"><strong>REM (Active Sleep)<\/strong>&nbsp;\u2013 light sleep where the brain consolidates learning.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-regular-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">Knowing this helps parents catch the sometimes elusive \u201cdrowsy but awake\u201d window; the optimal time to place baby in the crib. You can learn more about how the stages of sleep develop in <a href=\"https:\/\/letmommysleep.com\/blog\/2021\/11\/19\/the-four-month-sleep-regression-explained\/\">The Four Month Sleep Regression Explained<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading has-dark-color has-text-color has-regular-font-size\">Sleep Cycles By Age<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-regular-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">To help understand what&#8217;s expected in terms of baby sleep, here is a breakdown of newborns and infant basic awake and sleep times by age:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-table\"><table><thead><tr><th>Age<\/th><th>Awake Time<\/th><th class=\"has-text-align-left\" data-align=\"left\">Sleep Notes<\/th><\/tr><\/thead><tbody><tr><td>0\u20132 weeks<\/td><td>30 mins<\/td><td class=\"has-text-align-left\" data-align=\"left\">Sleepy newborn stage; most awake time spent feeding.<\/td><\/tr><tr><td>3\u20138 weeks<\/td><td>45 mins<\/td><td class=\"has-text-align-left\" data-align=\"left\">Baby more alert; white noise and babywearing can help.<\/td><\/tr><tr><td>8\u201312 weeks<\/td><td>60 mins<\/td><td class=\"has-text-align-left\" data-align=\"left\">Melatonin still developing; short naps are normal.<\/td><\/tr><tr><td>12\u201318 weeks<\/td><td>90 mins<\/td><td class=\"has-text-align-left\" data-align=\"left\">Begin longer awake periods and fewer naps.<\/td><\/tr><tr><td>18\u201324 weeks<\/td><td>90+ mins<\/td><td class=\"has-text-align-left\" data-align=\"left\">Consistent naps form as baby nears 6 months.<\/td><\/tr><\/tbody><\/table><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-regular-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">And here is a more in depth description of what&#8217;s typical each week:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list has-regular-font-size\">\n<li><strong>Weeks 0-2:&nbsp;<\/strong>Baby is awake for a maximum of 30 minutes.&nbsp;This is the sleepy newborn stage where most of your newborn\u2019s time awake is spent feeding. You might even have to prompt them to try to wake up during a feed. &nbsp;<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list has-regular-font-size\">\n<li><strong>Weeks 3-8: <\/strong>Awake for a maximum of 45 minutes.&nbsp;You\u2019ll notice baby is more alert as they approach week 8. White noise, babywearing and giving a pacifier to help your baby sleep are all fine to do because at this age, your help to get and stay sleep is truly needed.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list has-regular-font-size\">\n<li><strong>Weeks 8-12:<\/strong>&nbsp;Baby\u2019s awake time is eventually 60 minutes. You might need to help your newborn with napping if they wake up after 10-15 minutes by giving a pacifier or patting.&nbsp;<strong>Please know you\u2019re not instilling bad habits<\/strong>. It\u2019s developmentally appropriate that your baby needs a little help because the system that makes melatonin is not mature yet.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list has-regular-font-size\">\n<li><strong>Weeks 12 \u2013 18:<\/strong>&nbsp;We\u2019re getting to the 90 minutes of awake period!&nbsp;Baby is even more alert and may need help getting and staying asleep. Remember it\u2019s okay to allow baby to play independently in the crib as long as they are happy. If you want them to sleep through the night eventually, there\u2019s no need to rush them out of the crib when they wake up if they\u2019re happy there.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list has-regular-font-size\">\n<li><strong>Weeks 18 -24:&nbsp;<\/strong>&nbsp;Your infant is awake for 90+ minutes and you\u2019re seeing longer and fewer naps.&nbsp;Naps will vary in length, especially if you\u2019re out and about during the day. &nbsp;If you\u2019ve begun nighttime sleep training these naps become even more consistent.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image aligncenter size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"640\" height=\"554\" src=\"https:\/\/letmommysleep.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/awake-time-for-infants.png\" alt=\"Breakdown of newborn and infant  sleep times by age\" class=\"wp-image-3777\" style=\"aspect-ratio:1.1555915721231766\" srcset=\"https:\/\/letmommysleep.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/awake-time-for-infants.png 640w, https:\/\/letmommysleep.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/awake-time-for-infants-300x260.png 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 640px) 100vw, 640px\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\"> <\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading has-dark-color has-text-color has-regular-font-size\" style=\"font-style:normal;font-weight:400\"><strong>Safe Sleep: Reducing the Risk of SIDS<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-regular-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">Before sleep training begins, ensure baby\u2019s sleep setup meets&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.aap.org\/en\/patient-care\/safe-sleep\/\" title=\"AAP Safe Sleep Guidelines.\">AAP Safe Sleep Guidelines.<\/a> Always place babies up to age 1 on their&nbsp;backs to sleep, alone on a firm flat mattress. This is true for naps as well as overnight sleep.&nbsp;You can read more in <a href=\"https:\/\/letmommysleep.com\/blog\/2025\/09\/30\/10-steps-safe-sleep-baby\/\" title=\"10 Steps to Safe Sleep for Baby\">10 Steps to Safe Sleep for Baby<\/a>  Please note that the AAP also cautions against using weighted swaddles and weighted sleep sacks on or near baby, as they are&nbsp;not safe and not recommended.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image aligncenter size-full is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"840\" height=\"640\" src=\"https:\/\/letmommysleep.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/safe-sleep-.png\" alt=\"NIH Infant Safe Sleep environment infographic.\" class=\"wp-image-3778\" style=\"aspect-ratio:1.3128911138923653;width:643px;height:auto\" srcset=\"https:\/\/letmommysleep.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/safe-sleep-.png 840w, https:\/\/letmommysleep.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/safe-sleep--300x229.png 300w, https:\/\/letmommysleep.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/safe-sleep--768x585.png 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 840px) 100vw, 840px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading has-dark-color has-text-color has-regular-font-size\">Steps to Sleep Through the Night <\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-regular-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">Now that we&#8217;ve addressed <em>when<\/em> to sleep train and how to make sure infants are in a safe sleep environment, we can move on to help baby sleep through the night.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-regular-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">There are 4 basic steps to sleeping through the night:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list has-regular-font-size\">\n<li class=\"has-regular-font-size\">Confirm with your pediatrician &#8211; Ensure baby is developmentally ready to sleep 6+ hours without feeding. <em>As our night nanny team often reminds parents, this is important because you want to set up baby for success, but also because you will feel confident that you&#8217;re making the right decision. <\/em><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li class=\"has-regular-font-size\">Consolidate daytime feeds over the course of about a week- \n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Offer&nbsp;4 daytime feeds&nbsp;of 6\u20137 oz every 4 hours, plus one&nbsp;10 PM dreamfeed. <\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Gradually space out feeds by 10\u201315 minutes each day until reaching 4-hour intervals.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li class=\"has-regular-font-size\">Wean overnight feeds at the same time you&#8217;re increasing daytime feeds:\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Reduce bottle size by \u00bd oz every 2\u20133 nights.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Replace comfort feeding with a pacifier or gentle soothing as best you can<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Once night feeds are eliminated, you can begin formal sleep training.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li class=\"has-regular-font-size\">implement formal sleep training using the Slingshot Method&nbsp;\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li class=\"has-regular-font-size\">The&nbsp;Slingshot Method, developed by Let Mommy Sleep, is a gradual, in-room approach:<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Night 1\u20132: Stay beside the crib and soothe with voice or touch.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Night 3\u20135: Move slightly away; use voice only.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Night 6\u201310: Sit near the doorway until baby falls asleep independently. Consistency and remaining calm are key. The goal is to shift from \u201cI get help to fall asleep\u201d \u2192 \u201cI can fall asleep myself.\u201d<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-regular-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">With 4 feeding sessions of 6-7 ounces plus a final dreamfeed, your baby is getting enough calories to sleep longer than 3 hours through the night.&nbsp;In other words, 28-32 ounces should be enough so your baby doesn&#8217;t wake out of hunger. &nbsp;Your baby might still wake because their body is used to waking every 3 hours, but having taken in about 30 ounces prior to sleep, you can be assured they&#8217;re not hungry.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center has-regular-font-size wp-block-paragraph\"><em>For the practical step-by-step feeding and schedule framework, see <a href=\"https:\/\/letmommysleep.com\/blog\/2021\/01\/24\/getting-baby-schedule-and-sleeping-through-night\/\" title=\"Getting Baby on a Schedule and Sleeping Through the Night\">Getting Baby on a Schedule and Sleeping Through the Night<\/a><\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-lms-pink-color has-text-color has-regular-font-size wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>A few notes about transitioning baby to a 4 hour feeding schedule:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-regular-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">Eating larger meals at predictable times means baby will&nbsp;also anticipate rest at predictable times. This is the natural transition to having a \u201cnight\u201d and a \u201cday\u201d instead of the 24 hour schedule of eating a bit, sleeping a bit, eating a bit, sleeping a bit.&nbsp;As our night nannies and postpartum doulas like to remind parents: We\u2019re not taking away ounces at night, we are simply repositioning them to be taken in during the day.&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-regular-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">Upon waking in the morning, give as much milk as baby wants at feeding time. For the next feed, work on holding off for as close to the 4 hour mark as possible. THIS WILL BE A GRADUAL PROCESS and may take 1-2 weeks.&nbsp;We never want baby to get to a state of frenzied hunger so it&#8217;s recommended to hold off feeds for 3 hours and 10 minutes on these first tries, then work up to 3 hours and 20 minutes and so on.&nbsp;Just push the feeding time up by a few minutes each day as tolerated by baby.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-regular-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">You\u2019ll see baby is able to go longer and longer stretches with each feed until after several days, they\u2019ll be doing the larger 6\/7 ounce feeds every 4 hours.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-regular-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">Once we know baby does not need to eat through the night, and of course there are no other physical ailments that are outside of your infant\u2019s control waking them, we can help them sleep through the night.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading has-black-color has-text-color has-regular-font-size\">The Dreamfeed Explained<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-regular-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">Coined by\u00a0<em>The Baby Whisperer<\/em>, a\u00a0dreamfeed\u00a0means gently feeding your sleeping baby around 10 PM to prevent middle-of-the-night hunger. The reason it\u2019s recommended at 10:00 is because <em>you<\/em>\u00a0are still awake but your baby hasn&#8217;t yet naturally awakened out of hunger. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-regular-font-size wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Sample Dreamfeed Schedule:<\/strong> <\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li class=\"has-regular-font-size\">7:00 PM: Baby\u2019s bedtime feed<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li class=\"has-regular-font-size\">10:00 PM: Dreamfeed while baby sleeps<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li class=\"has-regular-font-size\">10:20 PM: Quick diaper change, back to bed<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-regular-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">A dreamfeed works because it shifts baby\u2019s natural hunger window closer to parents\u2019 sleep cycle.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-regular-font-size wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>How do you do a Dreamfeed?<\/strong>  If you gently touch the bottle or breast to your baby\u2019s lips, they\u2019ll instinctively begin to suck if they\u2019re hungry and stop once they\u2019re full. By giving this feed&nbsp;<em>before<\/em>&nbsp;your baby wakes up from hunger, you\u2019re essentially topping them off so they can stay asleep through the time they would normally wake to eat. This \u201cpre-emptive\u201d feeding, often called a&nbsp;dreamfeed, helps everyone get a longer stretch of uninterrupted sleep.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-regular-font-size wp-block-paragraph\"><em>Nurse&#8217;s Note: You can do quick diaper change after the feed too just to be sure your infant is comfortable and clean! Our night nanny and postpartum doula team loves using wipe warmers for the dreamfeed. A nice warm wipe can help keep babies calm. Why startle them awake with a cold wipe if you don&#8217;t have to?! <\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-black-color has-text-color has-regular-font-size wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Why Does A Dreamfeed Work?<\/strong> Without a dreamfeed, a baby who typically feeds in the 7 PM hour may awakens naturally from hunger at midnight, 1 AM or 2 AM. Giving a feed in the 10:00 hour allows parents to head off this hunger and may allow baby to sleep longer, usually until 4 AM. Learn more: <a href=\"https:\/\/letmommysleep.com\/blog\/2014\/11\/12\/what-dreamfeed\/\"><em>What Is a Dreamfeed? How It Works and Whether to Try It<\/em><\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading has-regular-font-size\">Sleeping Through the Night: The Wind-Down Routine<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-regular-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">When we think about&nbsp;sleep training, we often picture those middle-of-the-night wakeups: it\u2019s 1:30 AM, do you go in and soothe, or wait a few minutes to see if baby settles? In reality, successful sleep training starts&nbsp;at bedtime, not at 2 AM.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-regular-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">If your baby can fall asleep independently at bedtime, usually between&nbsp;7:00 and 8:00pm, they\u2019re far more likely to resettle on their own when they wake overnight. Starting at bedtime also helps&nbsp;<em>you<\/em>&nbsp;prepare mentally for the process and be more patient, rather than being caught off guard in the dark.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-regular-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">To encourage self-soothing, establish a&nbsp;consistent 20\u201330 minute wind-down routine&nbsp;that happens the same way every night. Two or three predictable, calming steps signal to your baby that it\u2019s time to rest.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-regular-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">A common sequence is: Bath \u2192 Bottle\/Breast \u2192 Books \u2192 Bed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-regular-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">This repetition helps your baby reach that \u201cdrowsy but awake\u201d state where they&#8217;re tired enough to sleep, but still aware of being placed in the crib. That\u2019s when the learning happens.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-regular-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">At this point, your baby will learn to fall asleep without being rocked, fed to sleep or relying on a pacifier. These are&nbsp;<em>parent-managed sleep associations<\/em>. When babies learn to manage their own falling-asleep process, they can also use those same self-soothing skills to return to sleep naturally during night wakings without needing help from you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-black-color has-text-color has-regular-font-size wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Ultimate Guide to Baby Sleep Training \u2013 What Method<\/strong>?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-regular-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">There are lots of sleep training methods out there but they all have one thing in common; the parent eventually cannot intervene. Sleep training or sleep coaching as it\u2019s sometimes called, usually involves crying as a transition from being awake to asleep and each method essentially comes down to where you want to be positioned to hear the baby cry. Next to the crib? (The pick up\/put down technique) In the hall? (cry it out) Popping in every few minutes? (Ferber).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-regular-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">None are right or wrong, we\u2019re just making the point that sleep training methods aren\u2019t really all that different from your baby\u2019s point of view. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-regular-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">The formal sleep training technique our night nurses use is the Slingshot Method where you stay in the room while baby learns to go to sleep. <em>You may choose another method at this point though and that\u2019s fine! <\/em>The important part is that the path has been properly laid so you know baby isn\u2019t waking from hunger or something else outside of their control.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-black-color has-text-color has-regular-font-size wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>The Slingshot Method of Sleep Training<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-regular-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">The Slingshot Method is a gentle, gradual approach to sleep training that helps babies learn to fall asleep independently while still feeling supported and secure. The Slingshot Method was developed by Let Mommy Sleep&#8217;s Registered Nursing team.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-regular-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">During the first few nights, stay close to the crib and offer comfort through your voice or gentle touch. Patting, soft singing, or using the familiar \u201cshhhh\u201d sound can be reassuring\u2014but try not to pick your baby up. The goal is to show that you\u2019re nearby, while allowing your baby to discover how to fall asleep on their own. If it helps you relax, it\u2019s fine to sleep in the same room for the first few nights.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-regular-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">Crying is expected, especially during the first few nights or if this is the baby\u2019s first time without a pacifier. It\u2019s common to hear 7\u201310 minutes of crying before they begin to settle. If crying escalates after about 10 minutes and seems to worsen, it\u2019s perfectly okay to pause the session and try again later that night.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-regular-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">Over the next few nights, move gradually farther away from the crib\u2014first across the room, then near the doorway. Continue to soothe with your voice, waiting slightly longer each time before responding. Eventually, you\u2019ll be able to leave the room entirely. The goal is a steady transition from \u201cI get help to fall asleep\u201d to \u201cI can do this on my own.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-regular-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">If your baby wakes between 10 p.m. and 5 a.m., wait about 5\u20137 minutes before responding. Once babies can fall asleep independently at bedtime, they can usually soothe themselves back to sleep during night wakings. If you do check in, keep it brief and avoid picking them up; a calm voice or gentle touch is enough reassurance.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-regular-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">Most babies\u2019 natural wake-up time is between 5:00 and 6:00 a.m. While this may feel early, it\u2019s developmentally normal. If your baby wakes happy and alert, there\u2019s no need to rush in right away. Letting them play or babble in the crib for a few minutes promotes independence and helps them associate the crib with calm and comfort.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-regular-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">If this isn\u2019t ideal, just remember that it\u2019s not forever. Also- you don\u2019t have to go rushing in to get your baby simply because they\u2019re awake. If they are babbling or trying to scoot around the crib in the morning, it\u2019s perfectly fine and healthy to let them play independently as long as they are doing so happily. After all, we want the crib to be somewhere they look forward to being!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading has-black-color has-text-color has-regular-font-size\"><strong>Consistency is Key<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-regular-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">The single most important factor in successful sleep training is consistency. Once you\u2019re confident your baby isn\u2019t hungry, teething, or unwell, sticking with your chosen method allows your baby to learn faster and with less confusion.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-regular-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">For example, if your baby cries for 10 minutes and is then given a bottle, they quickly learn that \u201ccrying for 10 minutes = bottle.\u201d This resets progress and reinforces the behavior you\u2019re trying to replace. Staying consistent\u2014even when it\u2019s hard\u2014teaches predictability and builds your baby\u2019s confidence.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>Sample Sleep Schedules For Babies<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-regular-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">Now that you understand how to guide your baby toward independent sleep, these sample schedules can help you picture how feeding and naps fit into a 24-hour rhythm. Here are <a href=\"https:\/\/letmommysleep.com\/blog\/2024\/03\/02\/all-the-infant-sleep-schedules-in-one-place\/\">All the Infant Sleep Schedules in One Place<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large is-resized\"><a href=\"https:\/\/letmommysleep.com\/blog\/2024\/03\/02\/all-the-infant-sleep-schedules-in-one-place\/\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"600\" src=\"https:\/\/letmommysleep.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/Let-Mommy-Sleeps-Ultimate-Guide-to-Baby-Sleep-Training-1024x600.png\" alt=\"Let Mommy Sleep's Ultimate Guide to Baby Sleep Training\" class=\"wp-image-5685\" style=\"aspect-ratio:1.7066666666666668;width:519px;height:auto\" srcset=\"https:\/\/letmommysleep.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/Let-Mommy-Sleeps-Ultimate-Guide-to-Baby-Sleep-Training-1024x600.png 1024w, https:\/\/letmommysleep.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/Let-Mommy-Sleeps-Ultimate-Guide-to-Baby-Sleep-Training-300x176.png 300w, https:\/\/letmommysleep.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/Let-Mommy-Sleeps-Ultimate-Guide-to-Baby-Sleep-Training-768x450.png 768w, https:\/\/letmommysleep.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/Let-Mommy-Sleeps-Ultimate-Guide-to-Baby-Sleep-Training-1536x901.png 1536w, https:\/\/letmommysleep.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/Let-Mommy-Sleeps-Ultimate-Guide-to-Baby-Sleep-Training.png 1726w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/a><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading has-black-color has-text-color has-regular-font-size\">Things to remember about these Infant Sleep Schedules:<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-regular-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">\u2013 These are&nbsp;examples only.&nbsp;Every baby and family is different, and it\u2019s fine if your schedule looks different or if you don\u2019t follow one at all.<br>\u2013 The purpose of a schedule is simply to help establish consistent start and end points to each day, creating space for one long stretch of overnight sleep.<br>\u2013 Use your baby\u2019s&nbsp;<em>actual<\/em>&nbsp;wake-up time to adjust any example schedule.<br>\u2013 Around 7\u20138 months, babies often drop their late-afternoon nap (around 4:00 p.m.), which is a normal part of consolidating sleep.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading has-black-color has-text-color has-regular-font-size\"><strong>Ultimate Guide to Baby Sleep Training &#8211; The Four Month Sleep Regression <\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-regular-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">The \u201cFour-Month Sleep Regression\u201d is a normal developmental phase, not a setback. As we talked about above, newborns initially experience only two sleep stages: deep sleep and REM and around three to four months, the brain reorganizes to include all four sleep stages, just like adults.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-regular-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">When this change happens, REM sleep decreases from about 50% to 25% of total sleep, making room for lighter sleep stages. This means your baby is now more likely to wake up during the night\u2014but that\u2019s completely normal. Even adults wake up multiple times per night; we just don\u2019t remember it. Learn more in <a href=\"https:\/\/letmommysleep.com\/blog\/2021\/11\/19\/the-four-month-sleep-regression-explained\/\">The Four Month Sleep Regression Explained<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-black-color has-text-color has-regular-font-size wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>What you can do to help your little one through the 4 Month Regression<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list has-regular-font-size\">\n<li><strong>Darkness:<\/strong>&nbsp;Babies aren\u2019t afraid of the dark; they\u2019re simply responsive to light. Keep sleep environments dark to encourage melatonin production and restful sleep.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>White Noise:<\/strong>&nbsp;Light sleep means more chances to wake from sudden noises. White noise helps mask environmental sounds.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Bedtime Routine:<\/strong>&nbsp;Continue a 20\u201330 minute calming routine like bath, bottle\/breast, books then bed placing your baby in the crib drowsy but awake.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-regular-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">Once again, our night nanny and postpartum doula team recommends talking to your pediatrician at the 4 month well check is so baby can get through this regression before formal sleep training. You\u2019ll get reassurance that they\u2019re now ready to follow the sleep patterns they\u2019ll have for the rest of their lives.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image aligncenter size-large is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/letmommysleep.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/Troubleshooting-Sleep-Issues-1024x1024.png\" alt=\"older child sleeping peacefully with chocolate lab by her side\" class=\"wp-image-3790\" style=\"aspect-ratio:1;width:401px;height:auto\" srcset=\"https:\/\/letmommysleep.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/Troubleshooting-Sleep-Issues-1024x1024.png 1024w, https:\/\/letmommysleep.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/Troubleshooting-Sleep-Issues-300x300.png 300w, https:\/\/letmommysleep.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/Troubleshooting-Sleep-Issues-150x150.png 150w, https:\/\/letmommysleep.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/Troubleshooting-Sleep-Issues-768x768.png 768w, https:\/\/letmommysleep.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/Troubleshooting-Sleep-Issues.png 1080w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading has-lms-pink-color has-text-color has-regular-font-size\">Troubleshooting Common Infant Sleep Issues<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-regular-font-size wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Will adding rice cereal to the bottle help baby sleep longer?<\/strong><br>No. Studies, including those from the NIH, show no relation to thickening formula and longer sleep. Thickened formulas are used only under medical guidance for specific conditions. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-regular-font-size wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>My baby has gas, how can I help?<\/strong><br>Offer slow feeds with frequent burping, keep your baby upright for at least 30 minutes after feeding and try gentle tummy massage or bicycle kicks. Ask your pediatrician about probiotic options to support gut health.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-regular-font-size wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Why does my baby wake at night if they\u2019re not hungry?<\/strong><br>Common reasons include: discomfort from congestion or ear infection for example, teething (typically between 4\u20137 months), or simply following the same 3 hour cycle they do during the day. Once cleared by your pediatrician, gentle night weaning can help break the cycle of waking.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-regular-font-size wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>When should I stop swaddling?<\/strong><br>Stop swaddling once your baby starts rolling. Transition gradually by freeing one arm and then the other while keeping gentle pressure on the abdomen.  Learn <a href=\"https:\/\/letmommysleep.com\/blog\/2019\/12\/09\/how-swaddle-pro-2020-update\/\">How to Swaddle Like a Pro<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-regular-font-size wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>How do I reduce or stop overnight feeds?<\/strong><br>Wean slowly by decreasing one-half ounce (or a few minutes of nursing) from each night feed. You can give a pacifier after giving the smaller amounts of milk if baby needs to suck to feel soothed. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-regular-font-size wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>What about the pacifier itself?<\/strong><br>Gradually shorten pacifier time during bedtime or remove it once sucking stops or slows. If you prefer, you can go \u201ccold turkey,\u201d but the gradual method is often easier for both baby and parent.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-regular-font-size wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>How do I sleep train for naps?<\/strong><br>Once your baby is successfully sleeping through the night there is no special &#8220;nap training&#8221; that has to happen.   One big caveat though: Naps can be inconsistent for so many reasons: your own family schedule, unexpected trips out of the house and the many gradual transitions babies make in growth. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-regular-font-size wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>My toddler still wakes up. What can I do?<\/strong><br>Toddlers often test boundaries or crave reassurance. Keep routines consistent and calmly return them to their bed each time. They\u2019ll learn the new pattern through repetition. Learn more in <a href=\"https:\/\/letmommysleep.com\/blog\/2023\/05\/26\/its-not-too-late-sleep-coach-your-toddler-guest-post\/\">Sleep Coach Your Toddler<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">The Bottom Line<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-regular-font-size wp-block-paragraph\"><em>Whether you\u2019re dedicated to following an infant sleep schedule or you\u2019re out and about without a schedule, there are a lot of ways to keep your newborn, infant and older kids happy and healthy. As long as your family is safe, harmonious and healthy, the parenting you\u2019re doing is <\/em><em>right<\/em><em>.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-regular-font-size wp-block-paragraph\"><em>Even if you follow expert advice exactly as it\u2019s written, your newborn, infant and toddler will still cry.&nbsp;They will cry to a point where you might experience frustration that scares you. If this happens it is okay to put your baby down in the crib or other safe space and walk away for 15 minutes. You can go back in when you\u2019re more calm. And maybe your child is more calm too.&nbsp; If you\u2019re concerned about baby\u2019s&nbsp;crying or health, please contact your pediatrician.&nbsp;<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-regular-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">Our infant sleep plans were&nbsp;written by Registered Nurses and Night Nannies using the guidance of our Medical Advisory Board. They&#8217;re not intended to be used as or replace medical advice.&nbsp;&nbsp;Any kind of sleep training or change to your baby&#8217;s feeding and sleep habits should only happen under the direction of your child&#8217;s primary care physician.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-regular-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">If you\u2019re struggling emotionally, please reach out to the National Maternal Mental Health Hotline for free, confidential, 24\/7 support in English and Spanish: 1-833-TLC-MAMA. 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